Lisa - posted on 12/10/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
My 20 yr old adopted daughter has ADD and severe RAD. She has hated me since I got her and hurts me emotionally with every encounter. She doesn't bond with people, pets, or things. Therapy didn't help. She doesn't even accept she has a condition, feels the hate is deserved. After adoption she has had no abuse, given every opportunity. She lives alone and has a steady job. .After 20 years I can't take the pain anymore, and want to end the contact totally. What should I do?