Lj - posted on 05/07/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband has a step-daughter from previous marriage, so she has a mom and a dad, and my husband is her ex step-dad. She is now 19. Three months before our wedding he asked if she could stay with us til she graduated high school. That was 2012, at first she was nice and polite, then she turned 18, started getting along with her mom and then disrespecting me. She put a strain on my marriage but i coped because i thought she was moving or going to college. She just finally went jan 2014. Things were rough with my husband last winter but have been great since she left. Well its summer, she wants to come live here.
She does not want to stay with her mom, because her mom is mean ---- she makes her do chores, and has curfew.
My husband lets her get away with anything and he spoils everyone with gifts. He is a very caring and giving man.
I admired that he wanted to stay in her life, when I found out about her, (we had already eloped, when we did he told me he had a son on the weekends)
But she is an adult now, she has parents to stay with, i told my husband i dont want her to live here, Am i wrong to ask that?