Melissa - posted on 11/29/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
I've been married for almost 10 years. We have 2 children. My husband is not romantic at all. He says and has said since our marriage that the reason is because his ex fiance broke him from it. (Apparently he was before he met me, but obviously she didn't appreciate it.) I love my husband, but he NEVER compliments me, NEVER! I never hear that I'm pretty, or I look nice in that outfit, or he likes my smile- nothing. He never kisses me, nothing other than a peck on the cheek or lightly on the lips. Even during sex he doesn't kiss me, although I pretty much do anything he asks of me. He never shows any affection other than a brief hug. I've been dealing with this for quite some time now and I'm at the end of my rope. I've tried on many different occasions to let him know that I would like affection and being touched and kissed, but in the end I get nothing. I guess I just feel like there is absolutely no passion. I'm tired of begging and need some advice.