Karen - posted on 06/25/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )
I am just curious for your opinion. I want you to just visualize who I am. I'm 26 year. I work part time, I go to school fulltime. I am a single mom for 4 1/2 yearold and 3 year old. I have the girls most of my times. The girls see there dad probably 2-4 times in a month only on the weekend.
When the holidays come such as easter day, halloween, christmas, thanksgiving, the dad want to share or switch off every year with them.
My thoughts are WHY Should I share those holidays with him. Why only the holiday that you want your girls? Why can't you see your kids on days that are not holidays. I've been the sole provider for them, bathing them, feeding them, clothing them, loving them each day, putting a bandage on a ouchy for them, why only on holidays you want your kids?
I am going to say some mean words. I guess I am a bit upset at this. I want to say screw it. I'm having the girls on the holidays, you can take them before or after the holiday.
I know I sound a bit unfair, let me know your thoughts mommys out there. thank you.