Karen - posted on 04/08/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
I wonder if any grandparent out there has ever experienced this, I am in need of advice. My husband has never had children biologically and we are in the process of gaining custody of my two grandchildren, the case is going to trial to sever the parental rights and children will go up for adoption. I don't want them adopted outside the family and there are no other family members capable. My husband is OK with a temporary stay but does not want long term or adoption, he is forcing me to choose him or the innocent grandchildren. I will choose the grandchildren but having a difficult time accepting that his vow of good or bad doesn't mean anything to him.