when can you start feeding you baby rice?

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Gena - posted on 11/20/2013

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Hi megan you must tell sylvia that 1400rand arent 1400dollars..its more i guess like 14dollars. Where are you living at the moment?I know prices have gone up so much,can you get cheaper nappies at Discont you know that pharmacy?And try find out where the milk is cheaper,in picknpay or checkers etc. I think he should be giving more money for the child because the stuff are so expensive.I think my friend found very cheap but good nappies at the spar. Do you think you will find a job in joburg?If you can find a good place i would do,ach ja sis on him to go buy tekkies instead of giving money for his son,i hope he atleast bought cheap tekkies from tekkie town?most proberbly not.. Cant he even take his son instead to spur for kiddies meal..dis nie reg,hy moet gee jou meer geld!!

Sylvia - posted on 11/19/2013

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No maam it is not wrong!! You must do what's best for you and your child!! Some people don't miss what they have until its gone

Sylvia - posted on 11/19/2013

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Megan I pray you find a better job! Your situation will change just hang in there!! I know it hurts but you must not allow this dude too dictate how you and your son live!! He will have too pay support or lose his license or maybe even do jail time!! You just keep pushing!! There will be victory after your struggles!

Sylvia - posted on 11/18/2013

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He sounds like the typical selfish man!! There is alot of role reversal nowadys!! The women are carrying the homes,when it wasn't meant to be that way!! It has been going on forever!! My mother took care of 5 kids on her own!! It's hard right now but keeping doing your absolute best it will get better!! Tough times dont last tough ppeople do!! Its been. many times we've struggled but we always come out ok! Maybe you can see if your mom will let you hold off on paying her for awhile!!

Sylvia - posted on 11/18/2013

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Hi Meagan! This is a very sad situation!! Maybe you should try a different approach dont ask anymore!! Take whatever he gives you and make due and keep your receipts!! If you have already gone too Child support this issue will be resolved soon!! You must be aware that with him making $1000 a month his child support payments wont be much and most men that pay support wont give you anything extra!!! Whatever you do not keep the child from his father in the long run the. hild will fault you!! Even though hes not doing as much as you feel he should hes doing most dads now a days dont do that!! So I say back off a bit and see how it works!! One question : Why would pay $1400 for a 1 year old's p party??? Adante would have enjoyed a $300 party and you could have taken the other $1100 put some in savings and the rest for necessities!! Hope this helps

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