Diane - posted on 09/20/2011 ( 10 moms have responded )
My spouse committed suicide and my kids and I are doing the best we can. Our marriage had always been a bit rocky and we basically stayed together for the kids. Infact on a number of occasions he would threaten it. I did love him but we honestly were not inlove with each other any longer. I have started dating and am in a relationship that I never knew could exists. My younger son loves it but my older son struggles due to the loyalty to his father. He gets along well with my boyfriend as our families have been aquantences for many years. I know that it is different for him but how do I move on and do it comfortable. I want what is best for my kids and I know that God put this wonderful person in our lives to show us how things could be but just can't convince my oldest of this.