When is it the right time.....

Maggie - posted on 10/27/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




When do you know when it is the right time to leave your childs father? I just am not happy anymore, he is always accusing me of cheating on him, he changed my email and my facebook passwords and accuses me of cheating with co-workers from my job... he hasnt had a job in 2 years ive been working constantly to support him, our house and our 3 yr old daughter Nevaeh. We are constantly fighting and i am always being put down. I do not know when the right time is to leave or where to go... but im sick and tired of this relationship and when i tell him i dont want to be here anymore he turns it around on me.. what do i do...


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Tara - posted on 10/27/2012




I agree with Nikki. Only you can make that decision. Given that you are the one paying the bills though, I would make him leave. If you are worried about how he will react about that, make sure you have a plan in place and support to make sure you and your daughter are safe. If you are super worried about it, make a plan to leave and then carry it out. Ultimately it is your daughter's safety and your safety that are most important, not whether or not it is him or you leaving.

Nikki - posted on 10/27/2012




Sounds like the right time, but only you can make that choice. I wouldn't leave, you pay the bill, make him leave.

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