Stephanie - posted on 06/17/2014 ( 14 moms have responded )
Hello ladies, well I'm a new mommy, baby girl will be 4months. And just recently I took my baby over for us to spend time with her dad for Father's Day, and since I hardly ever go over I told him to show our baby to his grandma since I never really go over, so he showed her to his grandma and then she decides to show her to one of his aunts. So she takes her on the bed with her, and at first everything seemed ok, but I felt really unwanted since she didn't wven say hi to me and my gut feeling was that I didn't even really want my baby to be with her. So I just step out Infront of the door waiting for my boyfriend to get out the restroom and I hear her cry a little, she stopped but a few seconds started crying and crying as if they did something to her! And so I walk in and his aunt wasn't even trying to calm her down she was just holding her till I took her from her and when I got her she was like smiling. I was so furious! My boyfriend walks in and says "what happened why is she crying" and then his aunt says "she just started to cry cause we layed her down" (it was her and her daughter) and in my head I said to myself "fuc*in lying ass B*itch cause she NEVER cries the way she did just cause "you layed her down" ugh I was soo angry!!!!! She Sometimes cried but just soon as she feels me next to her she automatically STOPS crying! And that day I picked her up and tried to calm her down but she was still crying. So of course I'm going to think they had to have done something for her to cry because she NEVER cries just cause she was layed down. NEVER has she cried with ANY of my family members. Even my 3yr old neice spends time with her and she has NEVER cried the way she did. So I seriously DON'T EVER want his aunt to carry her ever again. Who knows maybe I'm wrong but I know my daughter and she wouldnt be crying like that just cause someoone lays her down or just for no reason and especially since she wasn't even trying to calm her down and was just smiling once I took her from her. Ughh just wanted to say this since I still can't seem to get over it! And I would like to go over his house just incase his aunt try's to carry her I can let her know that I don't want her carrying my baby.! Yea it sounds like drama but what would you mothers do in that situation!?!?