Lindsey - posted on 01/01/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
My situation is very different and to some may seem well not very normal. Trust me this I know. My boyfriend and I broke up for about two months and during that time he managed to get another girl pregnant who he had been seeing for about a month. I had told him I thought it was in the best interest of her and there unborn child to try and have some kind of relationship with her as in trying to make it work. He wants no part in that and he and I are back together and living with one another, He wants joint custody of the child and wants it as soon as she is born. I have done a lot of researcher and have found that it really is not that simple. My concern is that as a mother myself is it really in the best interest of this child to start splitting up her time between are home and hers when she is about a month old? I worry though that he wont get to spend that time with her that is so very important I also worry that it will be I who is taking care of her when we do have her. I am more than willing to help and do whatever I can to help raise her I just have so many mixed feelings. I do not know what the right thing to do is and really need some help!