When was my baby conceived

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My lmp was 5/24-5/30 I had sex with my ex may 10, 17 & 23 & June 4, 6 & 7. I had sex w/another guy may 31 I'm trying to see when my baby was conceived. I really want this to be my ex's baby

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Jodi - posted on 11/20/2015

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"First off I didn't have sex with the other guy "

In your OP: " I had sex w/another guy may 31"

Uh, you DID quite clearly state you had sex with the other guy. Yep, you got me straight alright!

"I go to my obgyn every 4 weeks so if I had something I'm pretty sure they'd tell me."

Have you told them you've had multiple partners and asked them to test? Not all STIs are actually visible or identifiable without testing. Just saying.

"I didn't ask you who my child's father was."

In your OP: "I'm trying to see when my baby was conceived. I really want this to be my ex's baby"

You are also quite clearly trying to find out when your baby is conceived because you don't know if your ex is the father, so yes, you ARE asking who could possibly be your child's father. If the father was your ex, why would it matter when it was conceived?

Perhaps if you could get your story straight you wouldn't need to ask.

The fact is, noone here can tell you when you conceived your baby. It isn't an accurate science. If you had sex with more than one partner, you need the DNA test. True story.

PS. Please note I managed to write all of that without name calling. It's possible, you should try it.

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& I could've sworn it says when did I conceive. Bitch I didn't ask you who my child's father was. Did I?

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I'll get you straight very quick! First off I didn't have sex with the other guy thank you & secondly I don't have sex with Tim dick & Harry. Don't let your comments get you fucked up. & third I don't have to get checked for anything I go to my obgyn every 4 weeks so if I had something I'm pretty sure they'd tell me. Anything else you need to say smart ass? Just thought I'd check you very quick.

Jodi - posted on 11/20/2015

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I will say it now, I've said it before, and I'm sure I'll say it again. We cannot tell you who is the father of your baby. If you are bed hopping (i.e. having sex with different men) and you want to know who the baby daddy is, you need to have a DNA test when the baby is born. FFS, why can people just not have some goddamn morals and resist having sex with any Tom, Dick and Harry? And that goes for men AND women.

In the meantime, given you clearly could be pregnant by either one of them, you clearly had reasonably unprotected sex, so get yourself checked for STIs. That is more harm to your baby right now than not knowing who the daddy is.

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