When your boyfriend possibly could have father a baby by another women

Nicole - posted on 07/04/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I have been with my boyfriend for 3yrs now going on 4 he's 31 & I'm 25 I really love him dearly but he cheated & got another women pregnant which she claims he's the father of the child, I can't stress the issue of how hurt I am I try now not to think about it but is so hard, which this is not his first time cheating he have a couple of time in the past but I forgave him for that now here comes a woman saying he's the father I'm so confused on what to do

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Kassandra - posted on 07/06/2016

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I am sorry Nicole that you are experiencing this kind of emotional pain. Your post caught my attention because I have a daughter your age so I hope you will let me talk to you as a mom. No matter how much you love him, your love cannot change him. And not thinking about it does not change the reality of your relationship now that he has caused this pregnancy. It is admirable that you have been forgiving of his poor choices in the past in order to make your relationship work. But he has not been admirable toward you by continuing his unfaithful actions. Nicole you do deserve to be in a relationship with a man who will be committed to you alone. What do you think you can do as your first step toward a new path?

Sarah - posted on 07/04/2016

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Kick him to the curb! What is worse; a few weeks sorrow over the loss of the relationship or a lifetime or anxiety, mistrust and betrayal? Free yourself. There is a man out there for you who will make you feel safe, loved and honored. You won't live in fear of how many baby-mamas will creep out of the woodwork. Do it now, before you marry, before you have kids and before you are linked to him forever. No one is worth the anxiety this man brings you.

Sofia - posted on 07/04/2016

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Oh yes, sorry you don't have kids! GOOD! You are lucky Nicole. Pack your bags and leave. This will not get better, only worse. Thank-goodness you didn't have kids with him. Nothing good will come staying.

Sofia - posted on 07/04/2016

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I don't wish to be in your shoes. I am sorry, you are young. But there's another human being involved. What are your boyfriends' intentions? To be with her or you. You do have the option of kicking him to the curb. It won't get better with him as you get older. No life is worth misery. Take care of you and your children. You do have a bright future ahead without him.

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