Gail - posted on 01/13/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi could I pls get peoples thoughts on this problem.
I have known a guy for about 7 years and we have had an on/off relationship.
He decided to help me help my daughter who had a drug addictions. He leased a 2 storey house and she lived upstairs.
I warned him when he suggested it: Be careful she will rip you off, she is a very strong person and has a drug addiction, that will come first. Don't blame me when the s.... hits the fan.
It lasted 3 months, he kicked her out for not paying rent, partying, etc and she ended up back home.
My friend P ended up staying on in the house, ending up depression and blamed my daughter for it all.
For the next 6 months he constantly bagged out my daughter to me, refused to stop talking about it, then came out and said when he kicked her out some guy threatened him with a gun.
I was horrified.
My daughter is now free from her drug addiction - and has since tried to apologise to him, he refused to listen.
My daughter has apologised for being such a horrible person and wished she could take it all back.
When I asked her about the threats she said that they never happened, she knows nothing about it.
(I dont know what to believe).
My daughter has now told me P took her to get her boobs measured for a boob job before they moved in, he was always angry when she had guy friends there and that 1 night she woke to find him laying next 2 her in her bed.
I cant help thinking:
Is this why he was so angry.
was her so depressed because she rejected him.
Has he painted her as black as he can because he was rejected.
Did P my friend have an Alterior Motive??
I dont know what to believe...... my daughter who was a drug addict or my male friend who is 40.
Please let me know what you think