Who does it sound like is more likely to be my friends child's father?

User - posted on 02/19/2014 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Ok first off there are 2 guys and all this happened in 2010.

Guy 1-My friend had her last period roughly 10th-14th of December. She then had sex with a guy on the 22nd, 23rd and 24th of November. They had sex for a few minutes without a condom on the first time, but he then put a condom on after and all the other times they had sex was with a condom. The guy never ejaculated.

Guy 2-Had sex with him on roughly the 1st-3rd of December. All times were unprotected and he ejaculated inside of her. This guy was a pretty well known man whore and had slept with probably 30-40 chicks, all unprotected as well, and none of them ever fell pregnant. As far as he was/is aware he is infertile.
My friend experienced back pain like she was going to get her period in the time frame she was sleeping with this guy, but she never got a period.

Skip forward to roughly the 15th-18th of December, my friend took a pregnancy test, it was a faint positive.

Friend got an ultrasound done on the 29th of December and it said she was 6 weeks and 2 days along, with the estimated due date the 22nd of August.

After a few more ultrasounds the due date was made the 21st of August (ultrasounds all varied from the 20th-22nd of August as the due date)

Friend gave birth and now has a child. Looks can not be used to determine the paternity as both the guys had the same sort of hair colour and style and the same eye colour.

Just wondering who others think is probably more likely to be the father. We know the second one came inside of her, but according to ultrasounds etc, the conceiving date would have been before him. So how likely could it be that even after just a few minutes of unprotected sex and without ejaculating that it's possible first guy is the father?

In regards to DNA test. My friend is wanting to do an Avuncular DNA test (potential paternal Aunt/Uncle, your child and the biological mother DNA all tested), and she got into contact with the full biological younger sister of one of these guys and she has agreed to do this test.

Has anyone else had this sort of test before, or know someone that has and how accurate with the test itself?

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/21/2014

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LOL...Well, having heard 'my friend' stories all my life and 98% of those 'friends' being the person who's asking...And, honestly? Like everyone's said...this is a tired question. The answer is, the kid's parent is the one that shows up on the DNA test, and no one will be able to know the truth until that's done. And, if you don't like that response...oh well...

User - posted on 02/20/2014

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If you bothered to scroll down by 3 posts Shawnn you would see the same sort of reply has been answered to.
She has not had sex with anyone since finding out she was pregnant, in 2010.

What the baby was named is none of your business and private information frankly.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/20/2014

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Sorry, but...your "friend" needs to lose the promiscuity, and get a DNA test done. I'm so tired of this "tell me who my baby daddy is, because I slept with too many guys"...

That is what the Maury show is for...

And what did you name the baby?

Jodi - posted on 02/20/2014

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Yep, and we see questions like "who is the father" far too often. I was just putting a message out there to any other young people who think it is a good idea.

User - posted on 02/20/2014

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She did some stupid stuff she was younger Jodi, even she knows it was stupid. She hasn't slept with anyone since finding out she was pregnant and having the child.

Jodi - posted on 02/19/2014

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Your friend needs to learn to use protection, if not to prevent pregnancy, to prevent the spread of disease, especially when the guys she is sleeping with are man whores.

Only a DNA test can tell her who the father is. People on the internet certainly can't.

If someone doesn't know who the father of their baby is, it's a bit of a sign that maybe they need to stop jumping out of one bed and into another quite so quickly.

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