Who is the fatherof the baby?

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My boyfriend had a one night stand, June 9, 2012, she is due March 12, 2013. She says she was with someone June 16, but that he is not the father. Her sonogram July 19, said 6 weeks, 3 days, which goes back to the 16 conception. Would this be accurate dating on the sonogram because it said CRL dates, and she may not be telling the truth?

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Jodi - posted on 09/09/2012

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Sonograms are not ever 100% accurate. That's why they call it an Estimated Due Date. Get a paternity test when the baby is born. I'd be more concerned about the fact that he cheated. Work on that.

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Dove - posted on 09/09/2012

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I can tell that you really don't want your boyfriend to be the father, but the fact is that you can't know anything 100% until a paternity test is done. Speculating from now until March will just drive you insane. Sorry.

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The sonogram dates back to the 16th of June, if my boyfriend was on the 9th, his sperm would not live for 8 days right? It seems like her ovulation would be the 15th to the 18th correct? Since sperm live for a few days, if she ovulated then, he would be the father right? The sonographer said that this early, they are only off 1-3 days at tops, is that right also?

Dove - posted on 09/09/2012

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There is no way we can know who the father of this baby is right now.... and neither can you, him, OR her (unless she's lying and never had sex with anyone else). Wait and have your boyfriend get a paternity test done once the baby is born.



Based on different ultrasounds and my LMP.... I typically had 3 different due dates for each baby. ;)

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