who's last names should i put?

Tiffany Lynn - posted on 11/08/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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my boyfriend and i are still together, been together a year and a half before getting pregnant. i am now working two jobs while 6 months pregnant trying to get ready for the baby, he is trying to find a job in a different town so we are living seperatly. he is alwas asking for money everyday knowing i am saving for our son, and lately my parent have started asking me whos last i am giving him. and lately i dont know because we have started fighting and everything is starting to get to me. i can really use some help here

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Lacye - posted on 11/10/2012

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At the time my daughter was born, her father and I had not been together for very long (I ended up pregnant 2 months after we started dating). I gave her his name because I felt it was the right thing to do. Yes he and I are still together (we are married now with another one on the way)

Tiffany Lynn - posted on 11/10/2012

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he says hes trying to do everything he can to help support me and the baby, but im 6 months along and i have to work two jobs. and lately we havent been seeing eye to eye. i want to give the baby his last name. i will love him no matter what but sometimes i question his feeling. thanks for you help keli

Tinker1987 - posted on 11/08/2012

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It's really what you want. I went with my boyfriends last name,we were together for alot of years.and still are.even if we broke up we would be good friends.so i wanted him to have his fathers last name. if it was like a one night stand thing id use mine but the father of my child is someone i love with my whole heart. and at some point id like us to be married so we can all share the same last name...just choose what is right for you. if you think the father will be some dead beat then go with your last name but if he is going to be around id go with this.

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