Why do courts think women lie

Jennifer S. - posted on 05/20/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )

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So I was told most women lie in court about child custody,an ect...why an why do courts think this why of women an if some women have,its not all women!i think most women come of lieing because their abused.an beaten down an confussed an want their husband to go back to what an who he was in the beginning.An be a husband an dad to their children an ppl make excusses for men,men will be men ann he works hes tired an so are women I have a someone who acts completely diff.behind closed doors.an to our child an I was told30 years of exper.they go by..they need updated.he has told me hiting leaves brusies,an marks being abusive verbally,an emotional,an saying hurtful comments in between lines.dosent.when upset at me an doing things back??he says I do things on purpose.?i just think im dealing with a total nutcase. so im just upset courts an judges think women lie!

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Judges think EVERYONE is lying. If you don't have physical evidence to prove what you are saying to the judge is true, don't even bother saying it. Judges cannot make decisions or rulings based on hearsay--it's not even legal for them to do so, they have to have proof.

Emotional abuse is one of the hardest things to prove in court. To prove it, you need to record the abusive conversations.Sometimes you can go to a licensed and court approved mental health professional and have them testify for you saying that they can see from your statements in session that you were clearly, truly abused, but that doesn't always work either.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/20/2013

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I disagree. I don't believe this at all. If this seems to be the case for you, it may be your delivery on talking about your situation.

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Jennifer S. - posted on 05/20/2013

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I don't wana disrespect (Kristi) very helpful...thank you...I just wanted advice..an I have seen men lie an mothers in laws wanting custdy... so I know its true.. but its so hard for me to see women abused an men getting away with it ..an its a cycle,i don't want my daughter in involved,asking other mothers advice...is so very helpful..

Jennifer S. - posted on 05/20/2013

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I know,i thought same thing..most women don't lie,but she said she seen it in court, I thought that was scarey im not saying its okay to lie....but something serious yes..never lieto keep a child away from either parent.. but when when a mother an a father go to court a mother should get all most rights ...he doesn't even parent her when hes here..i do 90% an when he does he blows up gets mad has no patience,ect...but a lot of MEN ARE GREAT WITH CHILDREN SEEN IT!!!! I JUST HAVE ONE WHO ISNT..thought he was he told me he wanted a baby.kids...an his mother even said oh.............my SON...hes great with kids...yea okay..i think its when we were together befor an he was with friends an just played fake an held their kids..an played..with them maybe he wanted something ..?when I was preg..he never touched my belly...his mom makes good things up..its funny hes good with animals to.. he plays with them doesn't feed walk take them to the vets nails cut...nothing..they prob starve if it wasn't for me.. I started posting things about my marr.i wanted to know if anyone goes throu samthings... an got into his mother an him getting custody,i deal with a mother in law who looked me in my face after giving birth,an said what....you didn't do all the work you just carried her..an tried taking her for a night..i wanted to slap her an say get out of my life!

Dove - posted on 05/20/2013

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Judges don't typically go off of what someone says... and if they do, you need a new judge. Judges are supposed to go off of what you can PROVE... otherwise it's just he said, she said nonsense.

Jodi - posted on 05/20/2013

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My judge didn't think I was lying. Probably because I wasn't. I find it hard to believe "most" women lie. I'm sure some do, but most? I would hardly consider a woman who works in the courts could know this because if she knew this for certain these women who lie wouldn't be getting custody, would they? Because the judge would see right through the lies, so.....

~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/20/2013

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Well, judges are suppose to have an impartial view. They review evidence at hand and make decisions based solely on that and of course take into consideration the well being of the child. No, I don't believe judges automatically think everyone is lying. If they do, it is why Kelly said.

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