Why do Single moms think it's so right to flirt, cheat with a Married man? Even after they know that they are married and think they do no wrong.

Yolanda - posted on 06/21/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I have seen it too many times where, my friends, and even with myself that single woman, especially single mother's , that not just flirt with married men or not even married men but men that are in long term relationships and FEEL that there is nothing wrong with this. Yeah, the saying goes that "we should blame the men" to let it continue. But as women, why aren't we backing each other up? We should feel wrong for doing this to our fellow women, especially if it was any of us going through it , we would be so pissed. My thing, is why don't the woman step and say look, unless I can see divorce papers, don't talk to me. Are we really that desperate? For me, this would set a bad example to my daughter and my boys if I did any of these things.

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Gwen - posted on 03/15/2013

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One time I could relate to Alanis "...it's meeting the man of my dreams and the meeting his beautiful wife". My dream man, married before I met him, so sad. Anyway, I'm also a single mom. Maybe your husband irregularly lovable or something.

Yolanda - posted on 06/21/2012

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That is what I am saying... Women want to have a comradery like with this site. We don't know each other but we lift each other up, bond in some way to each other but yet in this situation, someone says what you just said. " why would I hold a higher standard to that woman".

Funny isn't it how in one instance we all want to bond with each other... Not knowing one another .... but yet, we are all on this website ... ... trying to help each other.

Isobel - posted on 06/21/2012

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She doesn't know you, she doesn't care about you...why on earth would you hold her to a higher standard than the man who is supposed to be in a relationship with you?

Louise - posted on 06/21/2012

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I know what you mean. I have seen lots of women step over the line when they are recently divorced or separated. Its not on really is it. I am the first to say oy back off. A stern glace is all that is needed to let them know this is not on.

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