Elizabeth - posted on 08/12/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have a son with my fiance. All my fiance wants to do is sit in front of a tv or sleep or drink beer. He beleuces since he works he us entitled to only do these rhings. We both work full time btw. I have to tell him what to do and when to di things that one would do in order to live a normal home life. He gets mad that i am " telling him what to do" but if i dont then he only sits on his butt and does nothing. He thinks he has to drink til he is drunk. He says if i wanna cone home and have a beer i can. I am ok with that but a beer turns into 10-12. Up until nine or ten at night. We have a son living in our home with us. It is not ok for him to see this behavior. I work i clean i cook i plan i budget i shop and i pay the bills. We half everything but i just am the only responsible one to allocate the money to the bills. I want to leave him because i simply cannot accept his behavior. But idk hiw to deal with my son aaking where daddy is. And i cant be ok with him havibg my son on his own time because all he wants to do is sit in front of a tv and drink til he passes out. But there isnt any harmful clear and present danger to prove so i would have to let my son go and be subjected to this. At least here at home i can regulate how many he has but we argue about it. Here at home i know mt sob always has me when his dad bails out in front of the tv. I stay so i can protect my son because i feel like the damage is bad now but qould be abaolutely worse if we were apart. Because then i wouldnt be able to sheild my son fron ANYTHING. at least right now i can. But i am so hurt and heartbroken and nit happy and so jealous of other ppl i know who actually love and enhoy each other and their familiea. I cry all the time from being so sad. Idk what to do. Plz some advice!