Why is my husband acting crazy

Wendy - posted on 12/17/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )




I've been with my husband for 6 years, we have 4 children ages 11,9,2,and 1. My 11 yr old has high functioning autism and my 1 yr old has had trouble breathing since she was 3 months old. I'm their primary care giver, giving my 1 yr old breathing treatmen ts around the clock. My husband first Complained that I don't offer him food like sandwiches, whichI really don't But I do cook dinner every night. Then a week later he complains we don't have enough sex . We do it 3 or 4 times a week. One day we did it and he wanted to do it again but I was busy with the kids and he said why should he only get it once a day. Now his complaint is that I don't give him messages and I don't rub his back. Which I really don't have time to give him a massage but I take care of the kids. And I do rub his back once in awhile but he's talking about the massages.I have Fibromyalgia severely And I'm just in shock that he has all these stupid complaints. He thinks nothing is wrong with what he said. I take care of everything in the house laundry dishes cooking the homework doctors appointment and I just don't get it


Raye - posted on 12/18/2015




What does he do for you? Tell him you might be more willing to try to make more time to please him if he made more time to please you. Marriage is a partnership, and there should be give-and-take (not one person giving and the other taking, but BOTH giving and BOTH taking).

The average couple has sex two to three times a week, so he should consider himself lucky to get three to four.

Michelle - posted on 12/17/2015




All I'll say is that my EX husband was very similar to that. Hence the reason he is my ex.
You are an adult and can choose the way people treat you. You need to be strong and tell him to either man up and help or ship out.


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