Why is my twelve yr old daughter so violent against guys?

User - posted on 09/08/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My twelve yr old daughter Madison has been violent against guys for years but she has gotten more violent just recently and its really starting to worry med my daughter has asked me why she is so violent against guys and i dont know what to tell her please help me

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User - posted on 09/15/2012

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Well me and her father got a divorce but her biological father isnt around but her legal father is and she is hurting the guys. She has had an angermanagement circle with her guidance counsler and two other girls but it didnt help and it really wasnt my desicion and im sorry if im misspelling in a hurry and she has already had counseling but i dont know what else to try but i think i know what is making her so violent towards boys wheen she was younger actually not that long ago is when it stop her oldest brother that lives in the house used tO sexually touch her but he didnt rape her i thought that it wouldnt matter but then the bullying started by guys and then everybody else started to bully her and it was mostly done by guys and i idk what to do and im really worried

Mary - posted on 09/08/2012

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Has anything ever happened to her to make her have aggression towards men? Is her father in her life? Not to get personal but perhaps it's something deeper and subconsciously she has anger towards boys. When you say violent, what exactly are you referring to? Is she punching and hitting boys or getting into fights with boys? If I could offer any advice I would suggest counseling or therapy to work on anger management or coping skills. She needs to learn how to deal with her aggression in a more productive way. 12 is a hard age for girls. My daughter is eleven and they are going through so many hormonal changes that feelings of anger, sadness, etc can be intensified and more dramatic.

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