Why people get into relationships?
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Charity - posted on 05/22/2014
Thank you Tanya.
I have always been a believer and have had great support from my family and partner at the time. My daughters father he is an amazing dad and he still around. I have had great relationships in the past too. The reason I wrote that post was to highlight the fact that different people have different reason for getting into relationships and not all of them are based on love.
Tanya - posted on 05/22/2014
I read your blog and it is very nice. I can see that maybe you turned to God because you may have only had him when your got pregnant...And that is great that you turned to him! I am religious too.
However, I didn't marry my husband for the wrong reasons that you described...and I had a very religious wedding. I married him because I love him.
Perhaps you may have some bad luck in love in the past.
Michelle - posted on 05/22/2014
Well since I don't believe in God, it was MY decision to marry my husband. No one else had a say in how I felt about him and how quickly I fell in love. My husband is my equal and my best friend.
There was no divining force that got us together.
â« Shawnn âªâ«â« - posted on 05/22/2014
God GAVE me what I have. And I'm blessed. And I WANTED to be in my relationship 25 years ago, and still do today.
People get into relationships because they WANT to. You can philosophize all you want, but the real reason is because they WANT to.
Charity - posted on 05/22/2014
As silly of a question as that may seem, you will be surprised at the answers you will receive. Times have changed and become far more complicated. Love & Happiness no longer hold ground for people to get into a relationship.There are many wrong reasons why people want to fall in love or get into a serious relationship or marriage.
Many people tend to feel worthless or lacking something when they are single or lonely. This emptiness and desperation to be treated as special make them get into relationships fast only to regret later.
In this case one ends up settling for far less than they would have actually desired because of the obstacles of finding a suitable partner. You end up falling for the first woman/man that loves and accepts you for who you are rather than working on your flaws to attract the partner you desire.
You need to know what you want in order to get what you want. Have standards in life and make sure that you live up to them as well. Be the kind of woman/man you would want your son/daughter to marry and you will find the kind of man/woman you would want your daughter/son to marry.
But most of all love God and love yourself because with God in your life you stay winning and everything will fall into place.
Matthew 22:37 "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind."
· Think of where you are right now, do you think you have settled with what you have?
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