Why there is no love?

Victoria - posted on 03/31/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )

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We got married for 6 years now with our two kids but life in our marriage is not going wel since then. We don't kiss, cuddle, hugs or show love to each other anymore once i see him touching me only if he need sex . Im try to talk to him but no solution. Im so lonely, stressed andemotional hurt. Help i really need a new life. What do i do?

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Sarah - posted on 04/01/2016

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I have been married for 23 years and there is certainly more important things that physical intimacy. I am not saying that isn't important, but mutual respect, commitment to your family and the ability to cooperate and compromise is more important. Our sex life has waxed and waned over the years. There were times when I really felt more like a roommate than a spouse. Showing kindness and consideration to my spouse has done more to strengthen my marriage then any amount of physical interaction. What do you feel is missing in your marriage?

Michelle - posted on 04/01/2016

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Counseling is your next step.
We can't help you with your marriage, that has to be you and your husband doing that.
If he doesn't want to put the effort in to save the marriage then maybe you need to look at leaving.

Michelle - posted on 04/01/2016

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I agree with Jodi, to keep the interest in a marriage (especially after children) you need to work at it. You need to be able to talk to each other about how you are feeling and what you, as a couple, can do about it.
A good marriage has to have good communication.

Jodi - posted on 03/31/2016

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Have the two of you had a conversation about it? You really need to talk to him about how you feel and make sure you schedule time together to spend time as a couple. It sounds like you have disconnected, and you have to learn to reconnect. This may require some couples counselling to help you, but if you are able to have a calm conversation about it, you may not need it.

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