Why will a man have two kids with a woman and still not be ready to marry her?

Aquamarine - posted on 12/22/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




I have two lovely kids with my children's father and we have been together for almost 6 years on and off. We use to argue a lot at the beginning and I know we should of parted but we did loved each other. We both have made mistakes in the past but when I found out that he was talking to his x-girlfriend and that they kissed that broke my heart! I haven't been able to forget what happened and I cannot trust him. I only feel like if he can surely commit and propose then I can trust him again. Now he has said sorry for all of this but after a while he has told me that he no longer wants to be ina relationship with me. I still love him and continue to have sex with himj. smh
I feel like he never was in love with me because we would off been married or atleat engaged.
What do you ladies think?
Any feeback would be much appreciated! ;-)

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Lopezmayda - posted on 12/22/2012




Thank you for your honesty...we already sat down and spoke like adults. He knows he has to leave...even though my heart is hurting so much right now. At the end it should be worth it. I just feel like we didn't tried hard enough...smh
My kids don't deserve this...but I rather them see us as friends then arguring all the time in front of them. Maybe one day I can find a man that will treat me the way I always wanted. ;-)

Jodi - posted on 12/22/2012




Sounds to me like he is only staying around for the kids and the sex. He has made it clear he doesn't love you any more and doesn't wish to be in a relationship with you and yet you continue to have sex with him and try to keep him around. Have some self respect and make it clear to him that if he doesn't want the relationship any more, your relationship will be purely a co-parenting one and he can find somewhere else to live.

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