wiliston nd

Arliss - posted on 05/22/2014 ( 45 moms have responded )

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Any moms out there dealing with husband in the oil field and advice for learning to trust again? the oilfield is it's own world unless u live it iota hard to relate... I need support my husband comes home often treats me good provides but I caught him three years go with a geologist half my age! he left the rig right Way drove straight home and literally didn't leave my side for another year ! We worked through it the only job for him for many reasons is in the field He's been in wiliston since last July and things have been good except three different times I've been unable to contact him all nite, He dose sweet things still taking me to Hawaii next week calls me all day and thorough the nite, but there's lots of little warning signs, I think it's time for us to unite and figure wiliston out

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KarrieCluck - posted on 05/25/2014

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Yeah i found accounts on my husband to the hook-up.com account and the city sex.com account and like i said he has changed our cell phone services 3 times in a matter of just a few years. Plus, he has received questionable text messages from people he claims are just co-workers kidding around with him... Then i found an e-mail of disturbing nature !!! That made my eyes damn near pop out !!!

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/25/2014

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I know my husband never calls when he says he will and then makes excuses as well and has a silver tongue to boot too... grrrr would love to ambush their asses !! What company does he work for ???Mine always tells me he has meetings and blah, blah, blah . . . is always leaving early, coming home days late and says it because of his job !! I call the Bullshit card !!

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/25/2014

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I am still here... and my husband is the same way !! But i just have the same feeling in the pit of my stomach and gut instincts are rarely wrong.

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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Can you call me ??? I so feel your pain right now it is not even funny !! 1-970-256-8965 ,,,,, That or i can call you ....

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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http://www.yellowpages.com/williston-nd/...
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=girl...
http://www.businessinsider.com/boomtown-...
Not to upset anyone, but yes this is real..... and is the plain truth, read the comments and reviews and Men Wonder why we have effing attitudes when subjected to this crap !!! They think we are stupid and they say there's nothing out there but cold and, blah, blah, blah !!! Truth be told, nothing but tramps/prostitutes and strip clubs !! And like i said they make more than Doctors out there.

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Mandy - posted on 10/05/2014

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This is so horrible . I'm dating a guy who's a pipeline welder and I have never even net anyone in this business before . Reading this makes me wonder about texting and why he never ever calls . I don't understand is this common?

Vanessa - posted on 07/29/2014

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I don't know your situation but my husband rarely calls to tell the kids goodnight. He is dead ass tired when he gets of work...

Vanessa - posted on 07/29/2014

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my husband works on the rigs in ND & so does my dad they do have to go to meetings a lot safety meetings. ladies I think paranoia is here. they are out there making a living. they are dead ass tired when they get off work and they are out there to provide for their familys. he is two weeks on and two weeks off and for those of us who are sahm with the kids we go a little nutty at times and want to dig but they really are not doing anything but working their butts off.

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/27/2014

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That asshole is to hard to take out even for a tornado !!! His heart i swear is made of stone !!!!!
But Thank you for wondering.... I watch the news and weather
channel. He's fine, fact he just told me he found the coffee shop
I told you about the other day... Go effing figure, it is right there by Walmart, Hello i
am not S T U P I D as he likes to think !!! Been there how many months now and you just now found it. . .

Arliss - posted on 05/26/2014

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Karrie I tried calling earlier .. Scott just told me there's tornadoes all over up there and amancamp was taken out . Please tell me your husband is ok

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/25/2014

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Wait until he is in the shower ... not a whole he can do the !! Lol, or if he is asleep.
Funny thing i wanted to ask you is he in a catered mancamp or takes his own food ?? I am seriously ready to get even and get some answers...

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/25/2014

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Just like tonight he was supposed to call back he he had to do such and such . . . no phone call and i tried calling him several times over the last few hours to let him/the girls say goodnight and no answer.

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/25/2014

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I tried calling you a few times but you never answer, and yes mine goes missing all the time..... I kid you not - i have a heads up on Williston and what pigs men are and yes we do need to talk. Is tonight a bad time ??

Arliss - posted on 05/25/2014

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Sorry read these in wrong order. Yeah he should have been home days ago and today told me his other dd is going home instead since my husband is leaving the first of June till the 19th for Hawaii and a biker alley in Texas . I'm torn because he did plan this trip and talks so sweet but then pulls his crap. I've got some other stuff to share when we talk.

Arliss - posted on 05/25/2014

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Dude your kidding. I can't get anywhere near my husbands stuff he actually uses several diff email accounts. It's getting to the point where I will dig and dig till I find something. Tell me this does he trust you? We gotta talk there so much I wanna ask and share with u. Does he do the same thing mine does? Where he's just unavailable? Mia for hours? And it's Been 4 Fridays not in a row but still. He is flying me there Friday morning ... We will see if it actually happens or if it's just a decoy . Tell me when I should call tomorrow

Arliss - posted on 05/25/2014

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Yes I did then I sent u a text but didn't realize till after dinner and the movie it was a home line. I know it's late can we talk tomorrow ? Scarliss1842@gmail.com

Arliss - posted on 05/25/2014

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These are so depressing.I've been worried about the women working in the field then the strippers and hookers....This information made me realize I have even more to investigate.Damn him. Ill call u after church I woke up to no calls or texts he told me he would.

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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That is more than fine, we need to stick together as women as those assholes do to the bro-code !! I am here ... we women need each other to have each others back as those horny-toads do !!! :)

Arliss - posted on 05/24/2014

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Karrie can we touch base tomorrow? My daughter just came up asking to watch a movie She just turned 15 shes at that age where friends come first.:) Thank you for giving me your number and all the sharing.It helps so much
I have a million questions...Sunday morning is church till 1 . Is it cool ok f I call u then? Im in Loveland co my half sister was born and raised in grand junction co.
Let me know if there is a time that works best I know how hard it is to find time to do anything for yourself when kids are little like yours.

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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Can you call me ??? I so feel your pain right now it is not even funny !! 1-970-256-8965 ,,,,, That or i can call you ....

Arliss - posted on 05/24/2014

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I meant to tell you that ...we dropped our facebook accounts when I busted him three years ago because of trust issues. I can't even get into my old account because he's changed the password and if I bring it up he's like why so u can talk to old boyfriend s even though he's the one who cheated. I SERIOUSLY am wiped out physically emotianlly and mentally. This is his one more last chance....I talked to my best friend who lives in dc Since its basically a given that he will go mia again its time I changed my strategy. ...Im gonna leave my phone here because he can track me that way and hop on the next flight to D.C. where Jen is I've never left this man.I've s always caved and forgiven him.Hes taking me for granted for too long.Plus if he wants me and loves me he needs to show me .His actions can't contradict his words. I just wish I would have left the first time instead of investing all my time my beauty my life to this man who ultimately is just a conniving sex addict who wants a nanny not a wife. So heartbroken my stomach hurts and I feel so sad.

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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Arliss Summers, you should send me f/r request on facebook... KarrieCluck

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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He is a driller and has been in the oil field for around 12 years, we met in 05' and got married in 07' Have 2 daughters and he as well comes home and treats me well but ignores me when he is gone at work and i have busted him before as you have yours.... They seem to think just because we forgive that we will always give in !! I posted places in Williston that men often vacate that are infested with women of not so nice nature, some normal looking and others georgous that i can't compete with... And the damn prostitutes are relentless !! I too have tried to make a surprise trip up there to bust him .. but i have a 6 and 7 year old that just now got out of school, and he is well scary when i threaten the thought. He goes ape-shit wild on me. Saying if i do it will be the last time i see my kids if i bring them out there. And worse ... I am here in g.j. Colo. and can't really see at night.

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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https://www.facebook.com/pages/Whispers-Bar/173176526064349
I would love to unite with other women of oilfeild workers to figure out wth is going on also... Mine turns his phone off and refuses to answer, i deep down probably know the reason but have no proof !!

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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Sweety, i know my husband is out there too and he and i have had several fights already !!! It sucks !! You can friend me on facebook and maybe swap numbers if you ever need someone to talk to... I feel your pain trust me, i have friends out there and they say it is seriously gross and would love to get out of there !!
http://youtu.be/IAiHvGnKPVw

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQvsvDfd_ZE&index=5&list=PLiLh8euw8B-xWpx0YNbjw_GtVFslu_GNH

Arliss - posted on 05/24/2014

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Karrie. ..
I had another night of my husband going missed..I am thinking of driving up to Wiliston and ambushing his ass. I am so glad I've found someone who can relate. tell me more. Have u caught him?long has he been in oil? Maybe i should give u my email ? Im here and can relate i hope it helps.

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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Williston videos via youtube, gives you a good idea also... the cab driver in one videos even states about the prostitutes and that they go banging on hotel/motel room doors, they sneak into the campgrounds and druck driver windows ... It made me sick to my stomach !!

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/24/2014

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https://www.facebook.com/pages/Heartbreakers-gentlemans-Club/164531580262324

Arliss - posted on 05/23/2014

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Yes karrie he is in wiliston. Tell me more about your situation I am naive I guess ...prostitutes never crossed my mind after his bull with the twenty three year old geologist. We need to exchange details...Im fixing to head up there for a surprise visit.im very very frustrated and confused what the beck are these back pages? How long have u been married? How long in the field and what does he do? My husbands a directional driller we have been together for 12 years married in 06. I seriously am tired of the sick to my stomach feeling ...the waiting by the phone and the rage / pain that goes with it when he decides to not answer his phone...he always talks his way out of it.He's a silver tounged charmer..Im still crazy about him and when he's home he seems to be crazy about me. I am terrified of being the fool again and was content and even certain he was true blue until the last few months.
three times he's unreachable...he suddenly has a new taste in music. Seems distracted when he's home.The last time he came home I could just sense this anger in him. And the day he went back is the night I couldnt reach him.are u close to Wiliston?
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KarrieCluck - posted on 05/22/2014

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He works in Williston N. D. now and our marriage is going down the drain ever since he went there !!!

KarrieCluck - posted on 05/22/2014

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I can relate, my husband is in the oil field and we have serious trust issue . . . . Mostly from the past, but i know what i have seen and it doesn't look good !! There are just to many prostitutes/hookers looking for oil rig men moneys coming in and the backpages are to much !!!

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