Brittney - posted on 02/05/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
My ex bf and I have a 19 month old son. Paternity was established last February and he's been visiting his son since then. I really don't want him to have a say in our sons life. He left me when I was pregnant and his whole excuse is that he caught me with another man and didn't know if it was hishe kid. He even made me get a DNA test done. And now he's engaged to some girl he dated in high school. He took me to court in September over joint custody and he got joint legal for some reason. Luckily he didn't get joint physical. He found out my bf that my son and I live with is a felon. He has a D felony for domestic battery, battery, criminal recklessness. My bf hit me once and I called and left my ex a message to let him know, and then my bf called and was justifying his reason. Now my ex thinks this house ain't safe for my baby and me and he wants full custody. He said I'm not responsible cuz I won't get a job to help support my son, and because I don't have a license or a car and because I wanted to take my son with me to meet a man I met online. He said since he has texts and voice mails of me and my bf talking about all this stuff then he has enough proof to show judge I'm not responsible as a mom. But he had a hard time even finding a good job. He claims he got one now that he actually likes and is making good money at. But it made it where he had to move back to where he originally lived last year which is almost 2 hours away. He lived there when the original court order was filed and for some reason the judge didn't think it was a major distance factor, so he still got overnight visits. Am I going to be in trouble for any of this when we go to court?