Rhiannon - posted on 08/22/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hello mummies, im 17 and have a daughter a little over a year old, me and my partner have been together just over three year's but since I had my daughter I've apparently "changed" before I got pregnant I was " alternative" "emo" or whichever you prefer to call it, so piercings etc.... but since becoming pregnant and having my little girl ive stopped dressing like that for fear of being called a bad parent? I know it sounds silly but people are really judgemental these day? My partner no longer finds me attractive since it was the alternative side that attracted him in the first place and I keep finding pictures etc of all these "alternative, tattoo covered woman" its put pressure on my relationship as im terrified he'll leave me for someone like that.i hate knowing that he doesn't like me as much as he used to but part of me also thinks he should accept me how I am. I want to make him happy but I also dont want people judging me either, being a young mum its difficult enough to avoid the spiteful comments people throw at you. What are your opinions?