wondering how to act..

Samantha - posted on 01/05/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I have three sons..one child is by the man I am with..my 5 year old.. my man is 39 I am 28..he has a 22 year old son. .which DNA he Isn't his but he had raised him since day one.. the other day I came across a text message between him and his son. .they were having a disagreement but anyways ..he told his son that he would never chose me and my kids..one being his actual son over him.. how should i take this... also a comment was made about a month ago that his oldest son is number one everyone else is under him... including me..what should i say. ..how should i feel

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Jodi - posted on 01/05/2016

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I guess my first question is why were you reading your partner's text messages in the first place? This will determine how you bring it up with your partner. If you and your partner have and open and honest relationship, just raise it as something you saw/heard, and let him know how it made you feel. Don't accuse him, don't blame him, don't tell him HE made you feel a certain way, just that seeing/hearing these things made you feel a certain way and you'd really like to understand his point of view there.

You asked the question how should you feel. Noone can tell you how you should feel. You will feel how you feel, and that's your right. It is how you manage your feelings that is what counts. But don't ever let anyone dictate to you how you "should" feel.

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