working moms

Hanane - posted on 11/26/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am not from USA that mean I have no family here my husband have a 8 years old and we just have a baby girl she is almost 5months old now my husband have 100% custody for his son but still visiting his mom every weekend or other weekend (she just enjoy him with taking any responsibility to his need because she want be a free)she never bought anything for him she doesn’t help us for raising him we move to a very expensive town paying lot money for rent just for put the kid in a good school and he is a very demanded child and because the guilty feeling from my husband to him he do anything for him with no questions even now when we have the new baby he cant play with her in front of him … plus I have to leave my 11weeks daughter with a stranger and go to work I feel guilty about her I feel like I make mistake to bring her to this world how she can’t have her mom’s love and attention and she can’t have her dad love and attention???? i need help I feel sorry for myself and for her I need help ….


~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/26/2012




Well that really sucks of your husband. Sit down with him, and talk to him about how you expect both of you to be as parents to your daughter, and to his son. Communicate everything that you are feeling about this situation and how sad it makes you. It doesn't sound like he is being very fair to the newborn, and is only concerned about his son. Get his son involved with the baby. Get him excited that she is around. Have him do little things like getting the diapers, or blankets for her. Play with him and her when you are doing tummy time. Also include him in every day life like helping with dinner. Make him a part of everything, and show him that you love him and the baby.

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