Amy - posted on 11/16/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
Here's my story. My son is four years old and his father has never paid child support and at one point had his life together...so I thought so I agreed to joint custody open visitation. We agreed to every other weekend. He did not always follow through. He would get mad at me and not take cayden. I got sick of the part time dad he was being so I stopped contacting him or playing the games of when he felt like being a dad. The last time he saw cayden was a year and eight months ago. He claims I keep him from him. Its not my job to remind him he's a father he knew where I lived and could have taken me to court at any point in time and didn't. Today I ran into him for the first time since then. He wants to be in his life. And he also admitted to being on drugs for the past year but claims he's clean. I'm so stressed about the situation because cayden does not know him and it had been just me and him for a long time. I don't know what to do. After a year of no contact can't I do something? Help please!! He is also 36 dating a 17 year old!