WORRIED BOUT MI HEALTH?

Shemekia_brown16 - posted on 10/05/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )

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I AM 19 YEARS OLD (5'3) AN I AM ON MY 2ND CHILD. I GOT PREGNANT WHEN MY DAUGHTER WAS 10MONTHS OLD.





I AM WORRIED BOUT MY HEALTH.



I AM WORRIED BOUT WHAT AM I GOIN TO DO WITH 2KIDS AT A YOUNG AGE?



I AM HAVIN ALOT OF PAINS ALSO (KNEES HURT SOMETIMES UPPER BACK AN MORE).

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 10/05/2012

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Shemekia,



If you're worried about your health, consult your OB. Explain what's concerning you, and see if there's anything you can do for the discomfort. Your size, and your age are not necessarily a problem, but the short time between pregnancies could be causing some issues.



If you're worried about what you're going to do with 2 kids at your age, you're a little late to be concerned about that, and I'd recommend that you get long term birth control after the birth of this baby, if you can't stop having unprotected sex.



You may want to consider adoption for one, or both of your kids, if you're concerned about raising them. I know plenty of couples who would love to have a baby of their own, I was one of those people a long time ago...But, if you've got a good support system, and you can love these kids, and raise them well, then you'll do fine! It takes a strong woman to be a mother, to go through the pain of birth, and raising a child. You've already gone thru the pain part once, so you know you can do that part. Do you have a support system? Family, friends, councilors or clergy that you can turn to for assistance?



I know that you feel like you're in a tough place right now, and you kind of are, but I also get a strong feeling that you'll be ok in the long run. The main thing now is to take care of yourself, and your daughter, and this new one on the way. Turn to us here for some long distance support, because we'll be here.



I know I did kind of sound like a crotchety bitch there at the beginning, that's kind of my style of speaking...I'll mom anyone I think needs it! But, honestly. You're 19, which isn't really too young to have kids, so I really do have a strong feeling you'll do alright with 2. Hang in there!

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Christine - posted on 10/21/2012

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If ur obgyn is telling you u need to talk to someone else.. then check their medical license on the wall. I get it ur 19 and ur scared. but u know what with 1 kid and one on the way time to suck it up. im with Dove,u r a broken record.

Dove - posted on 10/06/2012

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Not on this post you didn't. You said your ob told you that you would have to talk to someone else, but you never said you were GOING to see someone else.



Whatever. I can barely decipher what you are saying anyway. Good luck,

Shemekia_brown16 - posted on 10/06/2012

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i know an i said i was gon change mi doctor cuz he cant tell me nothin.

Dove - posted on 10/06/2012

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And I'm 35 and just trying to get you REAL help! You don't want real help?! Fine. I will not respond to any more of your posts. Keep pissing and moaning about it.

Shemekia_brown16 - posted on 10/06/2012

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look im 19 teens an um jux tryn to talk to other ppl an c how they was with they 2nd pregnancy!!!!! an what kinda pain did they have!!!

Dove - posted on 10/06/2012

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Then fire that ob and get a doctor that will help you. NO good doctor is going to let you be in pain without trying to find out why... or send you to someone that CAN find out why. You really think posting the same thing multiple times on COM is going to get your pain to go away?!

Shemekia_brown16 - posted on 10/06/2012

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mi ob aint tell me nothin he sayn i will have to talk to somebody else

Amy - posted on 10/06/2012

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You keep posting these questions about the pain your experiencing. Most women on here aren't doctors and even if they were they don't know your specifics, talk to your ob! They will be able to tell you if what you are experiencing is normal or not. I experienced back pain and sciotica pain towards the end of my second pregnancy, and I have knee pain occassionally now when I'm not pregnant so for me a little pain is normal.

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