would you be okay with your dh going to a strip club?

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Johnny - posted on 11/15/2011

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We went together a few times a long time ago. It is fun once or twice, but it gets boring fast. I think now it might take a.bit of convincing to get him to go back. He has more fun at home. I think making a big deal out of these sorts of things makes them seem more exciting than they actually are.

Aniesha - posted on 11/16/2011

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If he went behind my back or without me I'd be majorly pissed off!! But if we talked it over & went together, it could maybe be alright:)

Sal - posted on 11/16/2011

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It Is 2 phase for me, when was a city cop he spend every shift going into strip clubs so it s kind of what ever for him and if I were to get upset about it I'd of been shitty s fair bit....

But now he would only like to go with me but if he went out with the blokes what ever it is not a issue fir me....

Kyleigh - posted on 11/15/2011

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IMO only I wouldnt like my dh to go. This is for me and my dh only not others of course LOL

Sarah - posted on 11/15/2011

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I used to have a HUGE issue with it, but now I'm not so sure I'd really care lol. He's never been before, but I guess it's not that big of a deal to me anymore. We've been together for almost 10 years & I figure if he was interested in other women he'd be gone by now.

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Celia - posted on 11/16/2011

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I have no problem w my husband going to a strip club. I usually prefer to go w him so we can enjoy it together but regardless of if I go or not, I know he is coming home to me. Sometimes he needs a little variety and I can appreciate that. He goes and looks then comes home to me and I 'take care of needs' sparked by the visit. Sometimes it spices things up for us. If you feel comfortable and trust your partner then there shouldn't be an issue. Hope this helps.

Ashley - posted on 11/16/2011

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I wouldn't allow it ... and if he did go I would give him one hell of a silent treatment lol.... no really if he went i would not be happy at all would it ruin our marriage probably not but I would be pissed for a few weeks .. my cousin on the other hand his girlfriend(mother of his kid and one on the way) has no problem with it as long as he looks and doesnt touch ... she says this now when he is still only 18 but in 2 weeks he turns 19 and its all fair game for him then lol

Bonnie - posted on 11/16/2011

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If he went behind my back to one, I would be pissed. I honestly don't see why husband's would need to go when they have perfectly fine women at home that do way more for them.

Megan - posted on 11/16/2011

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i dont like my dh going, but thats just me though :) and he doesnt like the idea of me going which im totally fine with since im at home with the kids all the time

Stifler's - posted on 11/16/2011

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And it's not like strippers are interested in running off with my husband or he is going to leave me for one.

Stifler's - posted on 11/16/2011

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Yeah sure. I go to male strippers when they're in town. There is a titty bar here and I don't think Damo is interested because I had to twist his arm to go there the few times we've been.

Tara - posted on 11/16/2011

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The last time my husband went to a strip club was for a friend's bachelor party almost 7 years ago and he came home at 11 pm after drinking 2 beers, so, yes, I would let him go.

I trust him and it is a non-issue for me. That said, he has shown absolutely no interest in going just for the sake of going.

Ruth - posted on 11/15/2011

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Nope! I would go with him. Bet it would make for an interesting night. :)

Konni - posted on 11/15/2011

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No I'm not okay with it. I wouldn't be okay with a stranger walking around naked in front of or grinding against him, Just because they are 'entertainers' doesn't make it ok with me.

Barb - posted on 11/15/2011

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LOL.. yes, i'm okay with him going to strip clubs. i've gone with him in fact. Let him talk to a stripper and realize how damn good he has it at home. I'm blessed though, in that he doesn't like to waste money. I think we have gone maybe 3 times over the last 17 years

Katherine - posted on 11/15/2011

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Nope, we've been dating 10 years, been to the strip clubs together, he always comes home to me!!!! besides he doesn't like watching the strippers, he's always gone with friends or as a group with me included. However he had a bit of an issue with ME going to see female strippers with a bunch of girlfriends for our christmas party a couple of years ago

Sherri - posted on 11/15/2011

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Nope I wouldn't care but he hates them anyways so it isn't something I will ever have to concern myself with.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/15/2011

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I used to have a HUGE issue with this. now I really don't care.

Wendy - posted on 11/15/2011

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lol...no we used to go together....and yep i have had a dance....not a big deal Men are very visual he's going home with me

♏*PHOENIX*♏ - posted on 11/15/2011

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Nope would not mind....might even get a dance myself!

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