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Brandi - posted on 08/16/2012

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I'm sorry for your loss. That's very hard to have to go through. I'm sorry your relationship is going through a rough time also. It's hard enough dealing with the loss of your baby without having to deal with your partner cheating and placing blame. Maybe you need to look into a grieving group. You can talk to people that have had similar experiences and loss. You sound like you need to talk to someone that can help you through this time.

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Savannah - posted on 08/18/2012

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Well we dont have any more children. He says he wants to start trying again but he said if we have another girl he wants to name her autumn too
.. It really upset me bc im not going to even try to replace her . When I told him no and why he said he understands and he wants a baby to take his mind off of her but I dont believe it will im pretty sure im gonna be terrified of losing another child . And I really dont believe another baby will take my mind off of her I think it will be better but I know she's always gonna be in my heart and on my mind ♥

Rebecca - posted on 08/17/2012

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Pressed send too soon. Sorry.

All the best with your family. I hope things improve for you and your days begin to look brighter son

Rebecca - posted on 08/17/2012

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We lost a boy last October at 20 weeks. It was the hardest experience I have ever been through but it does get better. These tragedies either destroy the relationship or strengthen it, either way things always change. Im not sure about those around you, but I found it hardest to deal with thise who would compare it with a miscarriage. I've had miscarriages and although it's distressing it's nothing like losing a baby you've birthed. That is beside the point though, if this experience isn't one you can grieve through together, regardless of the cheating issue, then it seems to me that this is not a man you have a future with. I'm not sure of your situation (previous children etc) but I would not still be there.

It does get better

All I can say is that 10 months on and I still hurt every day, I miss my jack, I think of him often, even though I'm currently 7 months pregnant with another boy jack will never be replaced in my heart or my life, I don't cry everyday anymore, I can enjoy my toddler and I can see the good that came from my boys very short time here with us.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/16/2012

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I would stop communicating with this man. He sounds like poison, and is making it difficult for you to grieve and heal properly. I really hope you are feeling better soon.

Savannah - posted on 08/16/2012

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Its difficult but Im learning to deal with it . It doesn't get easier it just stops hurting as bad after a while . She's my guardian angel . I do believe .

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/16/2012

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Not totally clear on everything. Are you married to him? Visitation rights? I am sorry you are having such a tough time.

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