Jeremy - posted on 04/29/2015 ( 7 moms have responded )
If you really care about the mental and physical health of your children...you need to stay married. No it's not easy and you have problems you think are unsolvable. But %70 of America thinks they have unsolvable problems that require divorce. And they are all fixable problems. If you get a divorce from a good father then you are the selfish one, because you are not divorcing him for the kids. You are doing it for you. And YES that is a selfish reason. And when you get your new "boyfriend" he will NOT be the father you are now giving your children. And you have no right to expect any other man to replace a child's father just because YOU want to make a selfish choice.
I apologies for the forward nature of this but really, it's a huge choice. And a lot of America seems delusional about the consequences.