Young mother of three depressed

Mama Three - posted on 04/06/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I need to vent ! My first 2 kids father was my jrhs bf things was great but he became a drug addict I got full cousdty of them 😢 I tried moving on working 2 jobs I met my last child's father baby# 3 he had a child no one knew about I'm so depressed and feel betrayed and heart broken I work and either father helps with the kids nor their families I feel my life is destroyed with all the trama I been throw any advice ?? I will appreciate any

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Mama Three - posted on 04/06/2016

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I get foodstamps I'm just very overwhelmed with bills rent kids hw def tiring I also feel like a Dumass for having kids so young and without a father to look up to I feel like I failed them in so many ways 😢 I don't tell no one cause I act like I'm super happy but inside I feel lonely and sad i pray and on anti depressant and still I feel like a loser

Sarah - posted on 04/06/2016

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And sadly you may not ever get child suport, but you can apply for government assistence, for food, housing, education and insurance.

Mama Three - posted on 04/06/2016

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I feel like I can't trust no one ever ... And yes their family knows they are here my first to kids family lives in Florida they don't even call for birthdays and the little one so it seems is the ugly duckling in that family they watch his 2 other kids and not mine I have applied for child support for 8 yrs no luck

Sarah - posted on 04/06/2016

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Regardless of the fathers' involvement they should be paying some child support. Start by filing for that, and then apply for some government assistance so you can get yourself back on your feet. Do all of the grandparent and aunt's and uncles know about the kids? If not, I'd reach out for some support. not necessarily financial support but just family. What do you mean by trauma?

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