Steph - posted on 04/30/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hello to all beautiful mothers out there.
This is my story....
I'm a 21 year old girl, 7 weeks pregnant of my first child. Also a single mother to be.
The father of my child lives a double life and has chosen to remain married over starting over with a new life.
I had met him at my job, I noticed him right away for being polite, tall and handsome, with time as we 'dated' I started liking him more and more until I fell in love. He is a 39 year old with no other children. He would always talk to me about how his biggest dream was be a father and mentioned how he's time was running out because of his age. He would always make me feel protected and safe when I was around him
So I decided to let nature work its magic. After 7 months I finally became pregnant. What I thought would be both, mine and his biggest joy our lifes instantly took a turn for the worse.
He became extremely distant and not supportive
I started feeling worried why he would act such way
He told me to stay away from HIS FAMILY. Later to find out he had one child from a woman that he does not see and married to another.
I told him it was either the marriage or us and suggested an abortion.
He at this point flip flops alot sometimes making me feel like he wants part of this than at other he beget beget neglects me. At one point he made a comment almost making me feel like he wants me to give the child to him and his wife. I love this child with all my heart I would never give him up. I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with this since the man I love was someone completely different and I'm alone having his child.
I just want to know everything is going to be okay....