36 year old daughter being disresectful????

Cynthia (CINDY) - posted on 09/17/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I don't understand my daughter...she calls me names has physically hit me. I have never done that to my mother and I certainly don't do that to my adult daughter...I just stop seeing her and talking to her till she asks if we can try to get along over and over again...( the over and over again is cute but gee so many times I have to deal with her hurtfulness) just to have another incident....I haven't been in a fight with any of my siblings for so many years I can't remember a fight ....I'm the oldest of 8...I just don't get it! Where does it come from that she thinks she matters and I don't, that she can call me names and push me around?

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Barbilee - posted on 09/17/2009

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Cynthia, she is an adult, like you, and both of you get to choose your actions. If you choose to continue to put yourself in situtations with her that will set you up for the abuse then that is your choice. Or you can choose to create situations where she is not given the chance to be abusive to you. You are the parent, forever. You can still love her, but you don't have to like her. Set your boundaries, DO NOT let her treat you like that. Decide what is acceptable and what is not. Life is too short to hang out with people who pee on your parade.

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Sharon - posted on 09/17/2009

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Something is going on. You should face it she is no longer the daughter you knew or raised. Call child protective services if this verbal abuse carries over to her kids and let her go.

Cynthia (CINDY) - posted on 09/17/2009

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no she is not on crack, no brain damage as far as I know of!....She is very rude to her other children s grandma that lives with her and has problems with her father also. So I'm not the only one!I didn't raise her to be disrespectful ...my boys 20 and 21 are great...respectful and loving. She is at times very loving but with all the bad times it is hard to accept the love???!!

Sharon - posted on 09/17/2009

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Drugs. She's probably a crackhead and you should run like crazy in the other direction.



If thats not it, and at 36 years of age she can't articulate why she is upset, I'd suspect brain damage. Lack of oxygen or car accident.

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