Sheryl - posted on 12/19/2009 ( 100 moms have responded )
Just wondering if i am wrong asking my son grandperants for help when it comes to doc. appt. and or just watching them i when i got to take one to a appt. or do something that's really important. everytime i call and ask for some help like if she could drive to the app. cause we only have one car or if they can watch one of boys maenly my youngest son! i get the way do you ask me. why can't you find someone else! cause it last min or cause i don't have anyone else i can trust with them! i would ask my family but i live in another state than them and my husbend parents are the only family we have hear. just wonder anyone feels this way or if i am wrong for asking!
* ok just want to maybe give you more of info of what going on! my boys do that speech delays, but one has sensory processing dis.! my boys are sick alot too. so what i mean is by doc. is the ermg. one's! then, to i don't expect hands out! i know they have lifes! i don't expect them to drop everything, when i call! i only ask once about every month or two months! you guys also have ask where is my husbend? well my husbend works like carzy. plus, his back in collage! it we try to get someone. the person i tryed said she would watch my boys like for an hour , with out pay! in the being i said after yeah i want paid! ok i just feel like it just wrong to do that to someone! just as a trail! plus, i feel if where that my sensory issues! she would have just started. this has been seen he was born! yes i do understand some older people can handle the cry when there new born! one thing too. is that they where not here for the birth of my son! she wanted to go on a trip to see her grandkids up north. i understud that too. but she know i had no family here! so my family came down just so i would to give birth by my self! cause i also had another child! then she didn't even want to be here for his first chirstmas! the only reason why there going to be here this year is cause of money! do i understand that she also want to see her other grandkids yes! i'm sure they miss her too. it just hard coming from a family that was so close and always welling to take if other kids! if they need some help!