VENESSA - posted on 07/16/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
my bf and i known each other for 13yrs since high school.been together for about 2yrs.he hates the fact that he feels tied up cuz of my daughter.at first when we were dating,we saw each other often.,but as my daughter was growing up,i needed to teach her things like a mom should to develope her skills and potty traine you know.shes 3.he wants to be number one.i have tols him you,you cannot make me choose cuz you are both equaly important in my life,but daughter is extra more".
he fell in love with me in high school.i fell for him after high school.we reunited 9 yrs after and i miss him so much.he was the only one i ever hung out the most in high school and at his house than any of my other friend.
i knew the consiquences and risk.it would devistate me forever if we happen to break up and not only we lose our relationship,but our special friendship too.
of course he doesnt have kids himself.i am his first girlfriend.he looks up to Tom Lykis for woman advice (former radio host on 720am).he think he's like his "dad".(go to youtube and type that name and you know what i mean.)
i told him,"your not tom lykis and you can't follow his advice on women cuz you havent been there.he has.he's been maried 4 time and divorced 4times so he lost faith in women and knows whats up".my bf tries to be like him which is stupid.
anyways,how can i make us work so he wont feel tied up?