Kayla - posted on 10/27/2011 ( 116 moms have responded )
My daughters dad and I were never married and never lived together. We completely split up 7 months ago. Since then he has had her everyother weekend (which is more then what he saw of her when we were together). We live in a small town so people talk and I have been hearing for months about how he is out at the bar on the weekends he has her. I let it go for a while but he recently is asking to have her more and i dont think thats fair since he doesnt spend the time with her he is supposed to. Also i recently found out he allowed her to be around someone whom just got out of rehab for being on heroin. I was upset and when i brought it up him and his mother said that they would never let anything happen to her. i let him have her one more weekend after that and then I found out that weekend he had her he was out of town all weekend and our daughter was with gone hunting and both him and his mom lied to me. So i since then have told him he wasnt going to see her until we have a parenting plan and its court ordered. He also lives with 2 roomates and in the past the house was very unsanitary and she has been coming home with horrible diaper rashes every time i get her back. I dont trust his judgement right now and i want all this brought up when we are in court. Is this wrong? I am just really worried about what goes on when he has her.