Darnisha - posted on 02/05/2010 ( 10 moms have responded )
Hi my now 4 month old son is surely going to be missing his dad in his life. so i've decided to put child support on him (which is what i should've done from the beginning). I want to get full custody too but i don't know what i need to do to make sure Eli is completely mines...Im mean im not one to keep someone from their child but he doesn't come see him but when he feels like it and he lives literally 3 mins away and he doesn't even have to drive to get to our house he can walk .Im tired and don't want a pop in dad in and out of his life. He is avoiding my son and it crazy because he is beautiful baby who deserves nothing but the best in life that we can give him. He had RSV( a baby cold) for 3 weeks and he saw him once and then when he saw him he said " O he really is sick" and ive never lied to him so why would I lie about my child being sick ( Elijah got it when he went to his house). Even though we aren't together anymore it makes it harder for me to communicate positively with him because he doesn't give me anything good to say about him. When he goes buys diapers and wipes(which is all i ask for) he gets the cheapest kind he sees and in the wrong size even after i just told him what kind and what size to get..... so am i making the right choice by trying to get full custody or should i just get child support and just continue to keep seeing my son because i think it will hurt more when gets older..... What should i do?