Elizabeth - posted on 01/24/2010 ( 22 moms have responded )
Yeah I know this seem like no big deal but it is. Dad only gets her 30 hours a month 9 months out of the year and that is supervised. Ok yes there are many things wrong with that but that is not what is wrong right now. So he picks her up for her visit and everything is fine. I think all is good until I get my good night call and she tells me that daddy put drops in her eyes. The person that I am I ask her to put dad on. He says that when he picked her up her eyes were red and puffy. That was news to everyone in the house that he picked her up from. She was fine the min she stepped out the door and then all the sudden something happened by the time she got to the car. Any way there are two problems that I have. One he has no idea what her medical history is and could not tell a doctor because although I call every time something is wrong he never answers his phone so I text to let im know that something is wrong but he never calls to see what it is. Two he is not aloud to get her medical treatment with out me there stated in the court order. So why an I hearing from my child hours after a doctor has seen her that there is a problem. Now I have to go back home and take her again to make sure that everything is ok. I know that may sound strange but what he thinks is pink eye could just be an allergic reaction to something we have been having alot of those lately some so bad we have ended up in the ER. But he would not know this. So now I have to find a way to teach my child yet another thing that has to be done when she is at her dads and that is not fair to her. She is six and she already has to know that grandma can not leave her alone with dad and what she is allergic to because they do not know. Silly me I did not go over the medications she was allergic to because I thought I would get a call before it came to that. I should not have to protect my child from her father and if I am having to maybe I should go back to court but I feel so bad that she almost never sees him already. If you have any ideas I would love to hear them because I am so stressed out I can not even think.