Delia - posted on 11/03/2009 ( 36 moms have responded )
Im sure you all do at times. I have five children the oldest almost nine years old, 4 year old, three year old, two year old and an eight month old. My husband goes to school full time and I am a stay at home mom. I do everything in the household from taking care of the kids, cleaning, shopping, taking my husband and kids to and from school daily and I feel like I never get a break. I dont want to make my husband feel like he is a bad father but he does nothing really but once in awhile change diapers and make bottles. He also cooks food for them every now and then. I have mentioned to him that I am overwhelmed and he never says anything. I think I give more to the relationship than he. When I voice it to him he fixes his behavior for awhile. I am so stressed out sometimes but I dont wanna hurt our relationship by exploding and saying the wrong thing to him. Also I dont want the kids to hear me saying things to their dad. If telling his hasnt helped...what more can I do? I feel like I am carrying the whole load. We have been together for six years and married for two.