Kat - posted on 05/07/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
I am a single mum to my 3yr old son, i have been since i was pregnant with him but his father has come in and out as he pleases. I have finally put a stop to this as its not fair on our son who it confuses until his father agrees to be consistent in his life. It has been almost 6 months since my son has seen his father but as of late my son is asking for him a lot and wants to talk to him. Would love any tips or advice on how to deal with this?? And also am i doing the right thing by keeping him at a distance for the time being??
also know i want more than anything in the world for my sons father to be in his life and have a relationship with him but he is an alcoholic and drops in every 5 to 6 months or so, is good with our son when he is with him but then drops off the planet for another few months until he decides he wants to see him again. Im just not sure what to do as i am a first time mum and want whats best for my son!