Rachel - posted on 05/20/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
My father and I are estranged, but he really wants a relationship. He has one with my brothers, but they strongly feel that they owe it to him to be in his life. They think I am being selfish for not wanting him around. I tried to allow him to come over with boundaries, but my father grew very passive aggressive and manipulative under that, so I pulled the plug on his visit, so now I am being cast as a heartless selfish tease. I need some support or advice on what exactly I owe this man.