Chelsea - posted on 12/24/2012 ( 35 moms have responded )
I am at my wits end with my daughters father. In the last month I have lost a total of 100 dollars worth of my child's clothing. I keep all receipts of items I purchase and keep a log of what is missing when she comes back from her visitation. I confronted him about this when her very nice outfit was missing off her back that I had sent her in. She came back in something too small for her. When I confronted him he admitted on tape, he knows I record everything, that he and his gf do not like what I send her in so they throw everything out. I have been sending her in cheaper items, but they still throw them out. What can I do... I am loosing a lot of money and my daughter is loosing out on nice things. I am writing to you now because he is now throwing out her toys she takes with her too. He threw out her birthday gift she had gotten recently. She was extremely upset and said daddy won't let me have stuff you buy,because you bought it. She is very aware of what he is doing and it makes me mad. He doesn't pay child support at all, he is ordered too but he doesn't pay, I have called child support and they seem tone no help at all. I have talked to my lawyer and he has been drug into court over this and the judge ordered him to knock all of this off and that his gf cannot be around, due to other issues with her, but they continue to break order, what can I do???