TAMARYN - posted on 01/17/2013 ( 33 moms have responded )
the court ruled aswell as the social worker without evidance that i am a bad mother and they gave her to him every second weekend fullday to take away. she does not know her father nor his family. i am scared of my daughters well being. i am scared he does not bring her back. and scared she developes seperation anxiety. we do not have a parenting plan in place and nor did the court give us a subpoena or any documents saying how it works it was done verbally. i don't say he can not see her but under supervision at my house. an enviroment that she feels safe in. he was not part of the pregnancy he ran away when he found out i was 6weeks pregnant upto she was 3months i took care of her myself. my attorney did not even defend my child he just sat there with no words. i swear the judge and social worker is a bookclub with her fathers mother. i need advice ASAP he collects her tomorrow. i am from pretoria.