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Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009 ( 49 moms have responded )

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mi kids lieke da mc donald food and da nurs she tell me, not 2 give da fas food so much time. my 5 yr eat only nugets and cetchup dat all he wud eat and i no wan him to be starv so i give it 2 him. my babe like root beers in da bubba but i stil gives him on da brest to.
is dis ok?

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Kate CP - posted on 07/11/2009

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I've never heard of a Native American being referred to as an Aborigine. Maybe that's just me and my silly inatentiveness to detail, but what ever.

No McDonalds is not good for kids. Hell, it's not good for humans. Yes, this is a stupid topic. Yes, this is a stupid attempt to get attention (although it appears to be working). I don't know if this is Ms. Passmore or not and I really don't care. All I know is that reading the posts by Ms. Squirrely-whatserbutt here is obnoxious and impossible to understand. I would suggest that in the future we as a community ignore the posts made by Ms. Rhonda unless you really feel it is a true and valid question. I would also HIGHLY encourage Ms. Rhonda to read the English language and realize that one should not write as if one were constantly sending text messages on one's cell phone.

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all i can say is, if this is you Amanda its very stupid and very sad that you have to do this. if not you need to sort yourself out. Admins please remove this little girl from here. she is making this site a horrible place to be in.

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Bridget - posted on 07/12/2009

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Quoting Melissa:

Amanda - give it up LOL



Melissa, Oh my! You have said similar if not worse things then this Rhonda has and still worse yet you give the advice out! You should give it up and this is the reasons little girls should not be having sex and definately not having babies. Please Rhonda get some help Canada has great  opportunities take advantage of them please.

Melissa - posted on 07/12/2009

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Alot of native americans here in Canada actually do not have actual birth cerificates and social services has little to no say at this time due to politics, even when it is in the best interest of the child. Alot of this could very well be true even if we have sympathy for the children involved that being said the mother is a child herself and could use more education and possibly less people acting as though this cannot be possible.

Johnny - posted on 07/12/2009

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u dont no where i live. i neva told any 1 here dat.






some 1 ask wher i wus from and i from a very smal res in bc. we go back ther sumtimes cause mi ohkoma stay ther still. we go 2 visit wit mi ohkoma a few time in a month. curntly we live in da qayqayt  1st nayshun.





Well, in that case I apologize.  I was under the impression you lived near Broman Lake.  Since you are in close proximity to a McDicks, I would suggest doing everything you can to convince your children to eat something else. They are stubborn about food, one of my nieces says she will only eat spaghetti and california rolls, but her parents manage to get a more diverse diet into her mouth with discipline.

Rhonda - posted on 07/12/2009

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Quoting Carol:

I have no interest in defending Rhonda if she is a fake person & making all of this up. BUT, here in Canada where she is claiming to reside, the terms "Native Indian", "First Nations" and "Aboriginal" are all used, and mean the same thing. Which term you utilize depends on your political persuasion. Aboriginal is not the same as an Aborigine (as in an original dweller of Australia) but means inhabiting or existing in lands from the earliest times or before the arrival of colonists. Canadians who wish to show respect to our traditional peoples use this term instead of "Indians" which is considered to be an inappropriate title.

However, if she does reside where she says she does, by my estimation, the nearest McDonalds is a 180 mile round trip. That's quite a long drive for a frequent habit.



u dont no where i live. i neva told any 1 here dat.



some 1 ask wher i wus from and i from a very smal res in bc. we go back ther sumtimes cause mi ohkoma stay ther still. we go 2 visit wit mi ohkoma a few time in a month. curntly we live in da qayqayt  1st nayshun.

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Quoting Shannon`:

If you are gettiting info from a nurse this it what you should follow! Go to the Woman Infant & Children office and follow up with them you can type WIC into your search engine and find your local office. It is not up to the child to decide what they are eating it is up to you, you are the mother. You can also ask your DHS worker for info and pamplets I know they have FREE courses on nutrion and what your children should eat.this you can also look up online! DHS


WIC and DHS are only in the United States of America.

Johnny - posted on 07/12/2009

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I have no interest in defending Rhonda if she is a fake person & making all of this up. BUT, here in Canada where she is claiming to reside, the terms "Native Indian", "First Nations" and "Aboriginal" are all used, and mean the same thing. Which term you utilize depends on your political persuasion. Aboriginal is not the same as an Aborigine (as in an original dweller of Australia) but means inhabiting or existing in lands from the earliest times or before the arrival of colonists. Canadians who wish to show respect to our traditional peoples use this term instead of "Indians" which is considered to be an inappropriate title.

However, if she does reside where she says she does, by my estimation, the nearest McDonalds is a 180 mile round trip. That's quite a long drive for a frequent habit.

Rhonda - posted on 07/12/2009

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Quoting Shannon`:

If you are gettiting info from a nurse this it what you should follow! Go to the Woman Infant & Children office and follow up with them you can type WIC into your search engine and find your local office. It is not up to the child to decide what they are eating it is up to you, you are the mother. You can also ask your DHS worker for info and pamplets I know they have FREE courses on nutrion and what your children should eat.this you can also look up online! DHS



wat is DHS and wic

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If you are gettiting info from a nurse this it what you should follow! Go to the Woman Infant & Children office and follow up with them you can type WIC into your search engine and find your local office. It is not up to the child to decide what they are eating it is up to you, you are the mother. You can also ask your DHS worker for info and pamplets I know they have FREE courses on nutrion and what your children should eat.this you can also look up online! DHS

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Wow! I learned something while being totally confussed. I too did not know that there were Aboriginals is Canada. Thought it was only in Australia that they were called that. Don't wanted to sound racist just completely ignorant. And Rhonda or whomever you are I have to agree please don't write as if you're texting teenagers all day long. If you want to entertain go ahead but make it readable and consistant. Must of us here did not grow up texting and don't talk and type like that. And if you are a real person and the fast food thing is a real problem then maybe you should stop trying to entertain on the computer and make your kids a real meal. You can find plenty of resources online. My twelve year old niece grew up on soda and fast food and she has the worst diet and is obese, has problems with her feet and I wouldn't be surprised if she is diabetic. It's easier to stop at the young ages than when they get older.

Rhonda - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting Kate:



Quoting rhonda:




Quoting Melissa:

i know lol and check out her kids last names. one of them is apparently damien john bruised head. sorry for the slow reply i was looking some of her other posts lol







y r u lying and maikn up storys bout mi? u dont no me. y cant i make a thread wit out hearing racist and rude coment from u and a few others. i told u befor bout my kids name, we r aboriginal, we many  aboriginals got animal names. dis is a tradition that is from da elders. y u so judgmental? i don no y u all think i am not a real person but i am and i deserv same respet and tolrance dat u wold give any other mum. if u got notin nice 2 say than dont say anything. and pls stop folowing my threds. it is rude. i am stil falging all the bad remark as inaproprite and i will report all ppl who make fun uh mi kids names as that is racial discriminashun.









Wait wait wait. The other day you said you were from Canada. 






 






...Are there Aboriginies in Canada? This is quite fascinating...





yes

Kate CP - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting rhonda:



Quoting Melissa:

i know lol and check out her kids last names. one of them is apparently damien john bruised head. sorry for the slow reply i was looking some of her other posts lol





y r u lying and maikn up storys bout mi? u dont no me. y cant i make a thread wit out hearing racist and rude coment from u and a few others. i told u befor bout my kids name, we r aboriginal, we many  aboriginals got animal names. dis is a tradition that is from da elders. y u so judgmental? i don no y u all think i am not a real person but i am and i deserv same respet and tolrance dat u wold give any other mum. if u got notin nice 2 say than dont say anything. and pls stop folowing my threds. it is rude. i am stil falging all the bad remark as inaproprite and i will report all ppl who make fun uh mi kids names as that is racial discriminashun.





Wait wait wait. The other day you said you were from Canada. 



 



...Are there Aboriginies in Canada? This is quite fascinating...

Rhonda - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting Erin:

I must say it seems odd that someone with such a poor grasp of the English language still knows how to use punctuation??
As for racist comments - nobody but you is making fun of the Native culture. This whole fake profile is beyond a joke now. Are you really that desperate to ruin people's experiences of CoMs??


y wod i make fun of mi own culter

Rhonda - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting Catherine:

I completely understand your desire to break your children of the McDonalds addiction. The daily journey from your reserve at Broman Lake, of over 100miles to Prince George or 75 miles to Smithers must be exhausting not to mention the cost of fuel!
I highly recommend buying some good books on healthy cooking for kids. You seem to find reading english much easier than the writing so hopefully you'll have no problems following the recipes. Good luck.



wat u don think native cant go  da city? u think we all stuck on da res all da time

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Quoting Catherine:

I completely understand your desire to break your children of the McDonalds addiction. The daily journey from your reserve at Broman Lake, of over 100miles to Prince George or 75 miles to Smithers must be exhausting not to mention the cost of fuel!
I highly recommend buying some good books on healthy cooking for kids. You seem to find reading english much easier than the writing so hopefully you'll have no problems following the recipes. Good luck.


HAHAHAHA... good point. =)



 



 

Erin - posted on 07/11/2009

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Challenging the authenticity of a profile and the numerous ridiculous posts does not make anyone racist. Part of the reason people are offended by this is because 'Rhonda' is making fun of the Indigenous Canadian culture with these outlandish, exaggerated stereotypes.

Francesca - posted on 07/11/2009

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im not sure if you have seen all the other posts this girl has wriiten?? if not take a look and then decide if shes fake or not. i have not seen anyone being rasist.

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the only people making this a horrible site are the ones critising her! i think this is a valued question, and i think that if everyone answered correctly instead of throwing rasist remarks around it would be a good discussion. i'm discusted with the moms being rasist, i have two mixed race kids, and my husband is nigerian. are you gonna take the piss out of his culture too? don't answer if you think she's fake, she's asking a question and you are stiring the shit!



my answer is i watched this programme on the telly and it was bout kids that don't eat well, there was this girl that only ate crisps (chips) and chocolate (candy). the doctor told them to allow this girl to eat like this and to get help from a neutitionist to introduce new foods, as long as the kids are healthy then it's all good. don't force them to eat what they don't want this is how kids become fussy eaters. as for the young ones african women add baby cereal 2 scoops to thier milk once they reach 4-6 months cause it helps them sleep and gives more neutrition.

Kylie - posted on 07/11/2009

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btw girls i wouldn't be throwing Amanda's around like that especially when you have 0 proof ..thats slander mmk

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Quoting rhonda:



Quoting Melissa:

i know lol and check out her kids last names. one of them is apparently damien john bruised head. sorry for the slow reply i was looking some of her other posts lol





y r u lying and maikn up storys bout mi? u dont no me. y cant i make a thread wit out hearing racist and rude coment from u and a few others. i told u befor bout my kids name, we r aboriginal, we many  aboriginals got animal names. dis is a tradition that is from da elders. y u so judgmental? i don no y u all think i am not a real person but i am and i deserv same respet and tolrance dat u wold give any other mum. if u got notin nice 2 say than dont say anything. and pls stop folowing my threds. it is rude. i am stil falging all the bad remark as inaproprite and i will report all ppl who make fun uh mi kids names as that is racial discriminashun.





so u can spell aboriginal, judgmental and tradition but you cannot spell my, starve, nurse or ketchup ...geez your going to so much effort to keep up this facade the least you could do is keep in character

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Quoting rhonda:




Quoting Melissa:

i know lol and check out her kids last names. one of them is apparently damien john bruised head. sorry for the slow reply i was looking some of her other posts lol







y r u lying and maikn up storys bout mi? u dont no me. y cant i make a thread wit out hearing racist and rude coment from u and a few others. i told u befor bout my kids name, we r aboriginal, we many  aboriginals got animal names. dis is a tradition that is from da elders. y u so judgmental? i don no y u all think i am not a real person but i am and i deserv same respet and tolrance dat u wold give any other mum. if u got notin nice 2 say than dont say anything. and pls stop folowing my threds. it is rude. i am stil falging all the bad remark as inaproprite and i will report all ppl who make fun uh mi kids names as that is racial discriminashun.








"Root beer" is a north American thing.




An Australian Aboriginal wouldn't know what a root beer was......so you are right Melissa, some one is taking the piss!!!




and at the end of the day its very racist and not at all funny......COM needs to have this persons profile removed.




racisim is UGLY......and should not be tolerated!!!!

Mel - posted on 07/11/2009

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nice post Erin. i think we all need to work together to get he removed. i know quite a few have reported her but more need to. we need to make everyone realise this site is not a joke and that we are not all like this. please everyone assist us in getting her removed

Erin - posted on 07/10/2009

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Quoting rhonda:



Quoting Erin:

I must say it seems odd that someone with such a poor grasp of the English language still knows how to use punctuation??
As for racist comments - nobody but you is making fun of the Native culture. This whole fake profile is beyond a joke now. Are you really that desperate to ruin people's experiences of CoMs??





y casue i put perod at da end of da sentenc and queston mark at da end of da queston. everybody no how to do dat. i am not stupid u no so stop makin me fel dat way.






and i not ruinin circle of mums but der is sum  ppl doin dat like da ones dat is talkin bad bout mi kids names and dat is an insult 2 mi culture because u r moking somthin that is sacred 2 mi ppl.






dis is not a fake profile and no 1 wod even be sain dat if nichole wod not have started dat lie. now i am havin trouble jus bein part of dis community cause of  every1 is bein rude and makin lies and stuff. dat is not far. y is it u all dont think i am real. dis is ferusterating and upseting. jus cause a few bad aples r here dosnt mean da rest of ya got 2 act dat way.





You're dreaming if you think Nicole is the only one smart enough to realise what's going on..



Everyone's over it. Why don't you find another parenting website to torture and demoralise??

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Could you please rephrase this in something that resembles actual written English? I got a headache just reading it.

Rhonda - posted on 07/10/2009

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Quoting Erin:

I must say it seems odd that someone with such a poor grasp of the English language still knows how to use punctuation??
As for racist comments - nobody but you is making fun of the Native culture. This whole fake profile is beyond a joke now. Are you really that desperate to ruin people's experiences of CoMs??


y casue i put perod at da end of da sentenc and queston mark at da end of da queston. everybody no how to do dat. i am not stupid u no so stop makin me fel dat way.



and i not ruinin circle of mums but der is sum  ppl doin dat like da ones dat is talkin bad bout mi kids names and dat is an insult 2 mi culture because u r moking somthin that is sacred 2 mi ppl.



dis is not a fake profile and no 1 wod even be sain dat if nichole wod not have started dat lie. now i am havin trouble jus bein part of dis community cause of  every1 is bein rude and makin lies and stuff. dat is not far. y is it u all dont think i am real. dis is ferusterating and upseting. jus cause a few bad aples r here dosnt mean da rest of ya got 2 act dat way.

Erin - posted on 07/10/2009

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I must say it seems odd that someone with such a poor grasp of the English language still knows how to use punctuation??
As for racist comments - nobody but you is making fun of the Native culture. This whole fake profile is beyond a joke now. Are you really that desperate to ruin people's experiences of CoMs??

Rhonda - posted on 07/09/2009

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Amanda - give it up LOL


who is amanda? y u keep cali me dat. cant u see my name? cant u read? y r u followin me to every post.



please leave

Rhonda - posted on 07/09/2009

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i know lol and check out her kids last names. one of them is apparently damien john bruised head. sorry for the slow reply i was looking some of her other posts lol


y r u lying and maikn up storys bout mi? u dont no me. y cant i make a thread wit out hearing racist and rude coment from u and a few others. i told u befor bout my kids name, we r aboriginal, we many  aboriginals got animal names. dis is a tradition that is from da elders. y u so judgmental? i don no y u all think i am not a real person but i am and i deserv same respet and tolrance dat u wold give any other mum. if u got notin nice 2 say than dont say anything. and pls stop folowing my threds. it is rude. i am stil falging all the bad remark as inaproprite and i will report all ppl who make fun uh mi kids names as that is racial discriminashun.

Mel - posted on 07/09/2009

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i know lol and check out her kids last names. one of them is apparently damien john bruised head. sorry for the slow reply i was looking some of her other posts lol

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lol... omg lmao i didnt even realiz her last name AHAHAHA ooh god this is fkn funny!

Mel - posted on 07/09/2009

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lol no someone else said apparently she stays on all day.someone started a post about her in another group LOL its good tho cause i find myslef coming back here several times a day to see what she will write next

Mel - posted on 07/09/2009

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hahaha Mel your so funny. omg she is cracking me up so bad this "rhonda" its hillarious. check out her profile what her kids names are, and also she had sex when she was 10., has 5 kids at 16 and one with FAS apparently LOL.

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k im not a mum i just joind this so i can vote 4 my friends baby on a thing on here but i swear vthis chicks story is from Jerry springer or Maury povich or sumthen aii lolz i swear its exact!

Mel - posted on 07/09/2009

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LOL everyone dont worry she started another silly post on young mums 20-30 thats locked now. its Amanda Passmore on a different account looking for attention and trying to stir the pot. but its hillarious so please amanda keep it up

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I agree fast food should only be used a a treat and kids really shouldn't have soda at all. WE shouldn't even drink any soda because it's so bad for you. Some people mentioned buying chicken nuggets from the store but this is only a little better than buying them a McDonald's because they still have all the preservatives. If you want them to have chicken nuggets then you can make them yourself. It's really easy and much tastier I think. Here' the recipe that I use:

Mix 2 cups flour with 2 tbsp seasoned salt
Beat one egg into one cup milk
Dip each piece of chicken into the egg mixture and then the flour mixture and repeat. You can fry them in a little bit of oil or you can bake them in the oven. They are very tasty! Good luck!

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Kids will not starve themselves, so give them healthy options and eventually they will eat something. Your 5 year old knows that if he doesn't eat anything else, eventually you'll give him McDonalds. As for the soda in a bottle thing.....that is definitely not ok. It's horrible for them and I agree with the mom below that says you should give them water in a bottle or sippy cup. If you absolutely have to, you could mix the water with a very very little amount of juice, but that too is bad for their teeth. Hope that helps.

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McDonald's is not good for kids. no fast food is. and what you teach your children to eat now is what they will remember and stick to. Junk food should REALLY only be a treat every once in a while, unless you want to struggle with things like obesity, diabetes and malnutrition.
my suggestion is to not give an option. Have only healthy foods available and eventually they will learn to eat it. Right now they are in a habit of eating junk food,but when the option is taken away from them they will learn to eat healthy.
just remember that the little bit of trouble you go through now will give your children health and vitality later in life, something which you cannot buy and never get back if it is lost.
as for the root-bear. chuck it. children should drink water when thirsty. and soft drinks once again should only be given as treats. not even fruit juice as the sugar levels are to high for kids.
Teach them now while they are still young. Trying to teach a teenager is like suicide. But if you fail to teach them now, they will have health problems when older. It is therefore all down to the choice you make now. Make it for their overall health and well-being.

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McDonald's is not a good source of nutrition and should be a rare treat. You can make fried chicken/nuggets at home for your child if you want, which is healthier. You also should not give babies soda.

Especially if you have a nurse telling you to cut back, it's time to cut back. Offer several different foods at home -- fresh fruits and veggies, whole grain bread, etc. You can still make homemade fried chicken and such, it's fine. If you want to treat your kids with drinks, fresh squeezed lemonade (made fancy with the addition of a few fresh strawberries or raspberries if you want) can be nice. My DD likes this sometimes.

Just keep offering your kids healthy foods and they WILL find something that they'll eat. It's important to start healthy habits now.

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I am a nurse and my hubby a doctor we tell parents that at this age if you can get them to eat let them eat what they like as they get older their tastes will change of course don't fed them cake and ice cream but it is chicken and it not the child is foing to get high cholerterol (spelled wrong) Every so ofter try to sneek in some fruit and veggies even if you have put cheese over the veggies or give a can of mixed fruit in the sweet juice it lays in

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Are you saying that you give your baby soda? If so, this is really unhealthy as soda contains a lot of sugar and salt. If you are still breast feeding you should stick to that and give water in a bottle or sippy cup if you think the baby needs extra liquids.



As far as the chicken nuggets and Ketchup, there are plenty of healthier alternatives to McDonalds. You can still give your 5 yr old what he/she wants but make it at home so you know what is in it or buy some ready made at your supermarket but make sure to read the label first.



We all have problems with what our children will eat from time to time and you have to do what works for you just try to keep it as healthy as you can.

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