Five year old bully

Ronda - posted on 09/18/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My 5 year old grandson seems to be a bully @ school. He started kindergarten inSeptember. At first all was well. Then the time came when he had to spend the weekend with his BIO father(parents are split). When he returned to school after this weekend visit(he spent a whole month with his dad) he stared to kick other kids. A kid pushed him in the bus line and started to defend himself. Now it seems he goes up to kids asking if they want to fight him and tells them to give him their lunch money or he will beat them up. He has a good week when he is with his mom. Any suggestions how to solve this before they expell him? Tahnks....Concerned Meema

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Ronda - posted on 09/20/2013

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We want nothing more than to get him away from the father. He is with his GF & 2 kids plus another child with another girl and my grandson. that make 4.... he sees him every other weekend as court ordered...it was including wed for 2 hours...but he voulunteered to give that day up since he lives 45 minutes and of school. Thank you for all your suggestions.....

Cecilia - posted on 09/19/2013

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Ok seems you guys are trying to get it under control. I was going to suggest that next step would be removal from the father's house / or limited time there. which is why I would take him to a child therapist to have paperwork stating the problem stems from the father's environment.

It's sad when these guys (not men) can't do the right thing and do what's best for the child.

Ronda - posted on 09/19/2013

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thank you Cecillia for your post. The Principle & Counselor are both informed along with his Teacher. The BIO dad is a jerk. He thinks it's ok to fight even if he doesn't throw the first punch. His BIO dad will look you right in the face and straight out lie to you. Notes are being taken by all 3 officials and they will be given to the MOM'S lawyer. My grandson had a better day today and was allowed recess with the other kids. Thanks again...

Cecilia - posted on 09/18/2013

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Tell the school councilor your concern. (or have the mother do it) Explain that the behavior seems to show up after being at the father's house and ask them to talk to him to see if they can give you insight or tips. If that doesn't work look into a child psychologist. Something is going on in his head.

Also as the adults, someone needs to tell him you know what he is doing and it is unacceptable behavior and will not be tolerated. Explain if it happens again that there will be a punishment involved. The father should be informed also about it and if it's possible they work together as a team to set up the same punishment and rewards systems in both houses. This way mommy isn't the bad guy for always punishing while dad gets to take him to the park after he's acted in this way.

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