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Rhonda - posted on 07/09/2009 ( 95 moms have responded )

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mi friend told me dat u can make ur own babe formula wit coffee mate,syrup and heavy cream. has any mom tried this. i think would be cheaper den buyin from da super

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Kylie - posted on 07/10/2009

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Well i see your spelling has improved a little Rhonda....i was thinking how could someone illiterate as yourself be able to set up a facebook page let alone type the address correctly into the web browser. I think its disgusting your making fun of young mothers and native American people. You've been reported. Shame on you for taking genuine mothers who want to help others for a ride.

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the fact is people think you are fake because :

. you spell incorrectly yet your sentances are perfectly punctuated , and formed . that dosen't make sense.

. you write incredibly unbelievable things in posts , and your interests are " sexo wit bebe dads " when you are apparently a single mum ? and 7-11?
. you joined a group mums age 20-30 when your 16 . which leads people to think you only joined to stir up mums who are on that community .
. you constantly contradict yourself
. you appeared the day after another mother was booted and started conversations on the same topics as her ending up in arguments with the same women as her .
there are plenty more reasons im not at all trying to be a bitch im just trying to show you why people think this of you .

Ez - posted on 07/12/2009

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Do you guys seriously believe 'Rhonda' is real?? Come on....
I personally find it offensive that 'someone' is using the characature of 'Rhonda' to spew these close-minded stereotypical ideas about the Indigenous Canadian culture and young mothers. I agree it's time to just ignore it now, but I just can't quite believe some of you are falling for it.

Johnny - posted on 07/10/2009

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Quoting sean:



Quoting Melissa:

Lydia - its Amanda passmore using a fake account, please remember she is not giving true information when she posts





would you people lay off this poor girl. she said numerous times that she has no idea who this amanda chick is. why cant people just accept her for who she is and stop the arogent comments. this young lady seems to be in need of our support and not critiscism so why do you not just give her support instead of bashing her. i looked at her recent posts and thats all i see is a few of you following this poor girl around and trying to bash her on a public forum.  geez people what is wrong with you.






 






rhonda just so you know I have been flaging some of your threads as inapropriate because they are a little off the wall and ladies (melissa donnely) I have been reporting you to admin everytime i come across one of your rude, racist and degrading remarks.





Sean, while I would generally agree with you that we should be offering support and advice to women on here, especially those who are very much in need of solid advice, this case is quite different.  I believe that this individual whom everyone is "attacking" is doing a real disservice to other mothers out there who need REAL help.  She is purposefully stirring the pot and trying to upset some people, and insult others.  While whether or not to make your own formula is a good question, and a discussion worth having, that is not why she brought it up.  I think people are bashing her simply because they are tired of her trying to ruin COM, not because she asked this question.

Michelle - posted on 07/13/2009

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At the top of your thread it should say lock this conversation to any more comments or somthing like that.

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Kate CP - posted on 04/23/2011

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Yes, Rhonda was a troll. But I'm flagging this post so it can be closed.

Mel - posted on 04/23/2011

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hehe thats ok. I think if you read the rest of the comments you will probably get the gist. I vaigly remember it all lol

Bonnie - posted on 04/23/2011

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Well that's ignorant. That's all I can think of at this point lol. Thanks Mel:-)

Mel - posted on 04/23/2011

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yes it was someone who was banned a long time ago , who made up a fair few fake accounts, most of her posts were looking for a reaction out of people

Bonnie - posted on 04/23/2011

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hmm odd, so the person just thought of something to ask just to see what kind of replies it would get, without really thinking about it?

Mel - posted on 04/23/2011

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@ Bonnie - this is a fake account so was never a genuine question when posted :)

Bonnie - posted on 04/23/2011

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This is a really old thread, but I am going to answer anyways.

My jaw dropped when I read the question and I had to re-read it. NEVER would I ever try to make my own formula and NEVER would I use the ingredients mentioned. That is really unhealthy to feed to a baby and there are no nutrients in any of that.

Jacqui - posted on 04/23/2011

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hahahaha....you serious? uh..wow. those are all really sweet things that infants dont need. they need nurishment and vitamins.

Rhonda - posted on 07/13/2009

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Quoting Loureen:



Quoting rhonda:




Quoting Loureen:

the fact is people think you are fake because :

. you spell incorrectly yet your sentances are perfectly punctuated , and formed . that dosen't make sense.

. you write incredibly unbelievable things in posts , and your interests are " sexo wit bebe dads " when you are apparently a single mum ? and 7-11?
. you joined a group mums age 20-30 when your 16 . which leads people to think you only joined to stir up mums who are on that community .
. you constantly contradict yourself
. you appeared the day after another mother was booted and started conversations on the same topics as her ending up in arguments with the same women as her .
there are plenty more reasons im not at all trying to be a bitch im just trying to show you why people think this of you .







i am tired of tellin da reson y i do things. ppl tell me stupid cause of my speelin so now i use da spell check for da big words and then they call me fake. punctuashun? yes i now how to end a sentence. i learn dat in grade 1.  single ppl cant have sex? i didnt no u had 2 be in relashun 2 have da sex. 








and 7-11 is a store. mos ppl no bout dat store. is  very popular and open 24-7. they sell da slurps u no.








also bout me showin up after dis girl left. so wat? how many new ppl u thoink cum here everyday? y not target dem?









i wasnt " Targeting " i was explaining why everyone thinks this , but again with the contridictions , yes i know what 7-11 is we have them here in Australia , yes single people can have sex but you said it was with your Bebe daddies , i was just pointing out you had earlier metioned you were single , as for spell check , it automatically spell checks the entire post so again another un explained phenomonen any ways im not replying anymore , good luck whoever you are .





u must got a good computer case mine i got to do da spell check myself and yes i sex with 1 of my baby dad so wat

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not trying to be nasty rhonda but what Loureen says is right you and "Sean" who probably just made a facebook account to come on here, both are attacking me and reporting me when there are many other women on here with a grudge out on you. i think this makes people wonder due to amandas issues with me. now dont get your back up abot this i am just pointing it out to you so you can perhaps understand a bit better why others may be a little suspicious


melissa if sum 1 make 1 or 2 rude remark to me i let it go but if they constant follow me and be rude yes i report i have report more then just u . and sean is under atack now cause dat crazy girl wit da obsession 4 this amanda chick now think dat she is amanda. dat girl is crazy. she is obsession and create fantasy in her head. sum gal call me  a fucking indian to my wall and i report her 2. is not jus u. i got no problem with u personaly cause i dont no u. we r bth jus moms but i think dat the things u have said 2 me and about me r with da violashon of da site. u were racist and insulting were dat was not nesecery. u swore 2 me and wer down rite mean.



wat if sum 1 did dat 2 u? put yer self in my shoe and see how u feel. i wod rather be friend wit ppl then have ppl hate me cause i didnt do anything 2 deserv dat

Rhonda - posted on 07/13/2009

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not trying to be nasty rhonda but what Loureen says is right you and "Sean" who probably just made a facebook account to come on here, both are attacking me and reporting me when there are many other women on here with a grudge out on you. i think this makes people wonder due to amandas issues with me. now dont get your back up abot this i am just pointing it out to you so you can perhaps understand a bit better why others may be a little suspicious


melissa if sum 1 make 1 or 2 rude remark to me i let it go but if they constant follow me and be rude yes i report i have report more then just u . and sean is under atack now cause dat crazy girl wit da obsession 4 this amanda chick now think dat she is amanda. dat girl is crazy. she is obsession and create fantasy in her head. sum gal call me  a fucking indian to my wall and i report her 2. is not jus u. i got no problem with u personaly cause i dont no u. we r bth jus moms but i think dat the things u have said 2 me and about me r with da violashon of da site. u were racist and insulting were dat was not nesecery. u swore 2 me and wer down rite mean.



wat if sum 1 did dat 2 u? put yer self in my shoe and see how u feel. i wod rather be friend wit ppl then have ppl hate me cause i didnt do anything 2 deserv dat

Charlie - posted on 07/13/2009

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Quoting rhonda:



Quoting Loureen:

the fact is people think you are fake because :

. you spell incorrectly yet your sentances are perfectly punctuated , and formed . that dosen't make sense.

. you write incredibly unbelievable things in posts , and your interests are " sexo wit bebe dads " when you are apparently a single mum ? and 7-11?
. you joined a group mums age 20-30 when your 16 . which leads people to think you only joined to stir up mums who are on that community .
. you constantly contradict yourself
. you appeared the day after another mother was booted and started conversations on the same topics as her ending up in arguments with the same women as her .
there are plenty more reasons im not at all trying to be a bitch im just trying to show you why people think this of you .





i am tired of tellin da reson y i do things. ppl tell me stupid cause of my speelin so now i use da spell check for da big words and then they call me fake. punctuashun? yes i now how to end a sentence. i learn dat in grade 1.  single ppl cant have sex? i didnt no u had 2 be in relashun 2 have da sex. 






and 7-11 is a store. mos ppl no bout dat store. is  very popular and open 24-7. they sell da slurps u no.






also bout me showin up after dis girl left. so wat? how many new ppl u thoink cum here everyday? y not target dem?





i wasnt " Targeting " i was explaining why everyone thinks this , but again with the contridictions , yes i know what 7-11 is we have them here in Australia , yes single people can have sex but you said it was with your Bebe daddies , i was just pointing out you had earlier metioned you were single , as for spell check , it automatically spell checks the entire post so again another un explained phenomonen any ways im not replying anymore , good luck whoever you are .

Mel - posted on 07/13/2009

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not trying to be nasty rhonda but what Loureen says is right you and "Sean" who probably just made a facebook account to come on here, both are attacking me and reporting me when there are many other women on here with a grudge out on you. i think this makes people wonder due to amandas issues with me. now dont get your back up abot this i am just pointing it out to you so you can perhaps understand a bit better why others may be a little suspicious

Rhonda - posted on 07/13/2009

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Quoting Loureen:

the fact is people think you are fake because :

. you spell incorrectly yet your sentances are perfectly punctuated , and formed . that dosen't make sense.

. you write incredibly unbelievable things in posts , and your interests are " sexo wit bebe dads " when you are apparently a single mum ? and 7-11?
. you joined a group mums age 20-30 when your 16 . which leads people to think you only joined to stir up mums who are on that community .
. you constantly contradict yourself
. you appeared the day after another mother was booted and started conversations on the same topics as her ending up in arguments with the same women as her .
there are plenty more reasons im not at all trying to be a bitch im just trying to show you why people think this of you .


i am tired of tellin da reson y i do things. ppl tell me stupid cause of my speelin so now i use da spell check for da big words and then they call me fake. punctuashun? yes i now how to end a sentence. i learn dat in grade 1.  single ppl cant have sex? i didnt no u had 2 be in relashun 2 have da sex. 



and 7-11 is a store. mos ppl no bout dat store. is  very popular and open 24-7. they sell da slurps u no.



also bout me showin up after dis girl left. so wat? how many new ppl u thoink cum here everyday? y not target dem?

Michelle - posted on 07/13/2009

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If you have the answer you wanted then you should close the thread to further comments, thats what i would do if people were upsetting me.

Rhonda - posted on 07/13/2009

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why dont you work, being a parent and having four kids you should work instead of having your mom take care of you.


was da op about mi workin? no was bout formula recipee mi friend gave me. i wanted 2 c if it wus reel. i got mi anserw so stop judgin

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why dont you work, being a parent and having four kids you should work instead of having your mom take care of you.

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I remember my Nana telling me during war times, they sometimes used condensed milk, you know that really sweet thick milk in a tin, well they used to water that down but all the babies ended up with rickets because of lack of nutrition. My Nana had 8 girls & 1 boy, I think she was starting her own tribe lol!!

Rhonda - posted on 07/12/2009

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Okay what i wanna know is how the girl affords internet and a computer but cant buy baby formula. I was in a bad money situation right when my daughter was born and i SOLD my CPU to buy stuff she needed.
Oh and she has Digi cam....seriously she cant be that hard up if she has all this.
So Rhonda- youre either 1) lying 2) borrowing CPU/Digi cam 3) really seriously that stupid.

and finally i agree with kylie.... Rhonda - prove us wrong!



i live wit mi mum. i use her internet and her camra. i dont got mi own. i dont work. mi mum take care of us. here is comon 4 da teen mum and her kids 2 live wit da mum and sum time da extend fam.



again, i neva said dat i wus gonna use da formula recipe. i said dat a friend told me dat u can do dat. if u read mi other posts i clearly say dat i still brest feedin. da reason 4 da question was 2 c if mi friend was corect or if she wus rong. i no dat long ago the elders made da formula but i guess by all of ya dat it is rong 2 do dat now.

Libby - posted on 07/12/2009

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Quoting Ashley:

Libby and Krista, you both wrote exactly what i was thinking! you guy are sooo right!! apparently some people dont have anything else to do other than bother others. seriously people (the ones that keep fighting with this Rhonda chick) get a life!



Well, glad I could say it for you!  Honestly, I didn't have anything else to do.  But I think the kids are finally asleep in the tent.  Gonna see if it might be my turn to do the same (except in the house).  I hope it goes well.  If not, I may be back online tonight killing some more time!!  LOL

Ashley - posted on 07/12/2009

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Libby and Krista, you both wrote exactly what i was thinking! you guy are sooo right!! apparently some people dont have anything else to do other than bother others. seriously people (the ones that keep fighting with this Rhonda chick) get a life!

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Quoting Krista:

I don't know whether she's real or not...but I think you guys look as ridiculous as she does, following her around from thread to thread to put her down, and then hi-fiving each other afterwards. If she is fake, she's getting a good laugh out of you, and if she's real, you're just proving to be a bitch (not you personally...but the whole gang of "Rhonda/Amanda" haters...)



That's pretty funny, but so true.  The irony of it all!!  I don't know who is who or who has done what on all the other threads but it just sounds silly to waste time on this.  I guess everybody doesn't have anything to do, just like me!  LOL.  Hope these kids go to sleep soon!

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I don't know whether she's real or not...but I think you guys look as ridiculous as she does, following her around from thread to thread to put her down, and then hi-fiving each other afterwards. If she is fake, she's getting a good laugh out of you, and if she's real, you're just proving to be a bitch (not you personally...but the whole gang of "Rhonda/Amanda" haters...)

Libby - posted on 07/12/2009

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Quoting Krista:

I don't think that the people who keep complaining about her really want her gone, because then who would they have to bitch at/about on here?? It's so much more fun to gang up on someone and then write messages back and forth about how crazy she is. I also find it funny that one of the girls that's always attacking her is one who was often the object of attacks from others because of her parenting skills (or lack of). Now that the heat is off her, it's fun to tear into someone else!



Well, that is odd!  But it is easier to point the finger at somebody else than at yourself.  The whole thing is just hilarious.   I'm only on here because I don't have anything else to do.  I'm sitting outside waiting for the kids to fall asleep in their tents in the back yard and then I'm going in and going to bed myself.  Until then I am just playing on the computer and have been easily amused with this banter.  I do think it's odd that if someone is truly offended that they wouldn't take the time to report them, and in fact have said they will leave it to someone else to do, yet have the time to come back and keep posting.  Why?  Take the time to report the actions you feel are inappropriate and move one. 

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I don't think that the people who keep complaining about her really want her gone, because then who would they have to bitch at/about on here?? It's so much more fun to gang up on someone and then write messages back and forth about how crazy she is. I also find it funny that one of the girls that's always attacking her is one who was often the object of attacks from others because of her parenting skills (or lack of). Now that the heat is off her, it's fun to tear into someone else!

Libby - posted on 07/12/2009

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If this is a fake account you guys are feeding right into it. Also, some have said they don't have the time to report the posts, but yet keep coming back here posting and replying, and spending a lot of time doing all of that. Why don't you use your time constructively and report the posts that are inappropriate instead of stirring the pot?

Mel - posted on 07/12/2009

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Thanks! its from expressions in rockingham when they were there. they photo shopped her tube out. I love your pic to I was thinking that this morning i went onto your profile to get a better look at it hes such a cute bubba

Mel - posted on 07/12/2009

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good post Erika and Michelle dont be offended by that disgusting post. Kylie is right you havent done anything wrong

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Okay what i wanna know is how the girl affords internet and a computer but cant buy baby formula. I was in a bad money situation right when my daughter was born and i SOLD my CPU to buy stuff she needed.

Oh and she has Digi cam....seriously she cant be that hard up if she has all this.

So Rhonda- youre either 1) lying 2) borrowing CPU/Digi cam 3) really seriously that stupid.



and finally i agree with kylie.... Rhonda - prove us wrong!

Kylie - posted on 07/12/2009

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Don't worry Michelle, you've done nothing wrong except point out the obvious...I can't believe she has fooled so many others.
OK Ms Slipperysquirrel how about you post a clear picture of you and your 4 children outside the 7-11 or something and put all this controversy to rest and lets see a photo of you at 10 with your first baby.

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Quoting carrie:



Quoting Michelle:




Quoting rhonda:





Quoting sean:

also people she did not say she was going to feed that to her baby she said she had a friend that told her about it. i am assuming that the friend does this. rhonda was just asking to see if her friend was correct.









ty. i neva said dat i wus gonna do dat 4 mi kid. i say mi firned do dat.










every 1 on here lieke 2 read wat they want 2 and make up wat they want it 2 be






 






 












Rhonda you know how to spell friend, you spelt it right i you original post.









michelle if you look on your key board you'll see that r is next to e, so i think she pressed the wrong key by mistake what is your problem, your such a bitch, what kind of mother are you, to be nasty like this to someone. you are not a teenager, your an adult, so quit acting like a teenager, this cite is making me feel like i'm back in school, with a load of bitchy girls!






Dont you dare make out that i am a bad mother, im a fantastic mum to my daughter, i think this girl is trouble but i have never ever called her or anybody else names and i have never made a hint that she is a bad mother. Your behaviour is disgraceful.

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Quoting Michelle:



Quoting rhonda:




Quoting sean:

also people she did not say she was going to feed that to her baby she said she had a friend that told her about it. i am assuming that the friend does this. rhonda was just asking to see if her friend was correct.







ty. i neva said dat i wus gonna do dat 4 mi kid. i say mi firned do dat.








every 1 on here lieke 2 read wat they want 2 and make up wat they want it 2 be










Rhonda you know how to spell friend, you spelt it right i you original post.





eva here of typo? and yes i no i rite is slang so wat. lotsa ppl my age tlk in slang. u got a problem wit dat. is easyer and faster

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Quoting Michelle:



Quoting rhonda:




Quoting sean:

also people she did not say she was going to feed that to her baby she said she had a friend that told her about it. i am assuming that the friend does this. rhonda was just asking to see if her friend was correct.







ty. i neva said dat i wus gonna do dat 4 mi kid. i say mi firned do dat.








every 1 on here lieke 2 read wat they want 2 and make up wat they want it 2 be



 



 









Rhonda you know how to spell friend, you spelt it right i you original post.





michelle if you look on your key board you'll see that r is next to e, so i think she pressed the wrong key by mistake what is your problem, your such a bitch, what kind of mother are you, to be nasty like this to someone. you are not a teenager, your an adult, so quit acting like a teenager, this cite is making me feel like i'm back in school, with a load of bitchy girls!

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Quoting rhonda:



Quoting sean:

also people she did not say she was going to feed that to her baby she said she had a friend that told her about it. i am assuming that the friend does this. rhonda was just asking to see if her friend was correct.





ty. i neva said dat i wus gonna do dat 4 mi kid. i say mi firned do dat.






every 1 on here lieke 2 read wat they want 2 and make up wat they want it 2 be






Rhonda you know how to spell friend, you spelt it right i you original post.

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Quoting rhonda:



Quoting sean:

also people she did not say she was going to feed that to her baby she said she had a friend that told her about it. i am assuming that the friend does this. rhonda was just asking to see if her friend was correct.





ty. i neva said dat i wus gonna do dat 4 mi kid. i say mi firned do dat.






every 1 on here lieke 2 read wat they want 2 and make up wat they want it 2 be






Rhonda you know how to spell friend, you spelt it right i you original post.

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Please please dont do this...I know someone that did something similiar and their baby ended up in the hospital from malnutrition. The thing is that baby formula has all these vitamins and minerals put in it so that your baby gets every thing it needs...never give anything but formula or breast mild unless a doctor tells you too. At 10 to 12 months you can start them on regular milk.

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Quoting sean:

also people she did not say she was going to feed that to her baby she said she had a friend that told her about it. i am assuming that the friend does this. rhonda was just asking to see if her friend was correct.


ty. i neva said dat i wus gonna do dat 4 mi kid. i say mi firned do dat.



every 1 on here lieke 2 read wat they want 2 and make up wat they want it 2 be

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Quoting Jennifer:

who is amanda passmore and why was her account deleted? I do have a hard time believing this rhonda person is real and agree with whoever said that if she is she should be seeking professional help not coming on COM. That being said I do think in general the admin does a great job as I have not encountered much if any spam/trolling on this message board.






her account was blocked due to her racial disciination, abuse and bad language continuosly through out her time on this site plus she insulted everybody who had a different opinion to her and got herself as a mod just to block people she didnt like. i also have a hard time believing she is a real at first i thought maybe yes, then i saw a few more posts including the one about how babies are safer in the motehrs arms then in car seats that is when i realise she most definately was someone playing around. unfortunately we do not have proof it is amanda and we cannot use slander and accuse her of this, howevr "rhonda showed up the day after amanda left the site supposedly. amanda already had 2 accounts this will be her third one if it is her. coincidenatlly, rhonda talks about the sames sorts of topics amanda was so touchy on eg, beer in the bottle, FAS staying out late wth the kids etc.  no one will be able to know if it is amanda or someone else playing around however all we are trying to do now is work hard to get her removed. i myself do not have the time to muck around reporting her to admin so i am leaving it up to everyone else, but if i have to in the end i will





melissa agan i neva said mi kids be out late. i said i take dem to 7-11 dis is a store, is a name of a store. i neva said they was out from 7 to 11. i said i take dem ther. and i neva said i put da beer in da bottle i said i give em root beer. root beer is pop soda pop. do u not no wat root beer is.



every 1 no wat root beer is. u just tryin 2 cause problem makin up lies dat i keepin da kids out and given em alcohol. i neve said thoes thing. if i did pls quot me so i can see were i said dat

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Quoting Melissa:




Quoting Krista:

It seems the only "proof" anyone has that Rhonda is a fake is that they find it hard to believe that her situation is plausible...the spelling, her age, the names, the lack of knowledge...but most of you don't seem to have any knowledge of aboriginals in Canada. I live in Alberta, 30 miles from a reserve, and I know how many (not all) aboriginals live. First of all, the names are very common. You don't see "Smith" and "Jones" on a reserve. Second of all, lack of education, alcoholism, and a cycle of poor parenting leads to kids having kids, several fathers, and more poor parenting choices. I have no idea if "Rhonda" is real or just some loser with too much time on her hands...but I have to say that I think her situation is completely plausible and I see it all the time where I live. I know most of you think that giving a child coffee whitener is appauling, but the truly appauling things that happen frequently on a reserve (at least the one I live near) are rape, incest, murder, suicide, overdoses from inhaling hairspray or drinking household cleaners...if you don't know ANYTHING about aboriginals and the struggles they face, you have no right to attack Rhonda or to assume that she is someone else in disguise.








i think its also because she contrdicts herself Krista.and when others pull her up on it she does not repsond. see in one post she states " anyone who has sex at 16 is sluts and whores", then next she states she had sex at age 10 andhas 4 kids wih 5th on the way. one post she states baby has FAS because she did not know the dangers of alcohol to a baby because her mother told her it was ok, but that she now knows and does not do this anymore, another post she states that she puts beer in the bottle. her spelling is also very different from post to post










melissa do u not no wat root beer is? i said i put ROOT BEER.






root beer is soda.






i do no drink alcohol. i c wat alcohol do to mi ppl so i do no t drink.






then you have my apologies rhonda. i didnt know this

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Quoting Krista:

It seems the only "proof" anyone has that Rhonda is a fake is that they find it hard to believe that her situation is plausible...the spelling, her age, the names, the lack of knowledge...but most of you don't seem to have any knowledge of aboriginals in Canada. I live in Alberta, 30 miles from a reserve, and I know how many (not all) aboriginals live. First of all, the names are very common. You don't see "Smith" and "Jones" on a reserve. Second of all, lack of education, alcoholism, and a cycle of poor parenting leads to kids having kids, several fathers, and more poor parenting choices. I have no idea if "Rhonda" is real or just some loser with too much time on her hands...but I have to say that I think her situation is completely plausible and I see it all the time where I live. I know most of you think that giving a child coffee whitener is appauling, but the truly appauling things that happen frequently on a reserve (at least the one I live near) are rape, incest, murder, suicide, overdoses from inhaling hairspray or drinking household cleaners...if you don't know ANYTHING about aboriginals and the struggles they face, you have no right to attack Rhonda or to assume that she is someone else in disguise.






i think its also because she contrdicts herself Krista.and when others pull her up on it she does not repsond. see in one post she states " anyone who has sex at 16 is sluts and whores", then next she states she had sex at age 10 andhas 4 kids wih 5th on the way. one post she states baby has FAS because she did not know the dangers of alcohol to a baby because her mother told her it was ok, but that she now knows and does not do this anymore, another post she states that she puts beer in the bottle. her spelling is also very different from post to post






melissa do u not no wat root beer is? i said i put ROOT BEER.



root beer is soda.



i do no drink alcohol. i c wat alcohol do to mi ppl so i do no t drink.

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Quoting Krista:

It seems the only "proof" anyone has that Rhonda is a fake is that they find it hard to believe that her situation is plausible...the spelling, her age, the names, the lack of knowledge...but most of you don't seem to have any knowledge of aboriginals in Canada. I live in Alberta, 30 miles from a reserve, and I know how many (not all) aboriginals live. First of all, the names are very common. You don't see "Smith" and "Jones" on a reserve. Second of all, lack of education, alcoholism, and a cycle of poor parenting leads to kids having kids, several fathers, and more poor parenting choices. I have no idea if "Rhonda" is real or just some loser with too much time on her hands...but I have to say that I think her situation is completely plausible and I see it all the time where I live. I know most of you think that giving a child coffee whitener is appauling, but the truly appauling things that happen frequently on a reserve (at least the one I live near) are rape, incest, murder, suicide, overdoses from inhaling hairspray or drinking household cleaners...if you don't know ANYTHING about aboriginals and the struggles they face, you have no right to attack Rhonda or to assume that she is someone else in disguise.



i think its also because she contrdicts herself Krista.and when others pull her up on it she does not repsond. see in one post she states " anyone who has sex at 16 is sluts and whores", then next she states she had sex at age 10 andhas 4 kids wih 5th on the way. one post she states baby has FAS because she did not know the dangers of alcohol to a baby because her mother told her it was ok, but that she now knows and does not do this anymore, another post she states that she puts beer in the bottle. her spelling is also very different from post to post

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who is amanda passmore and why was her account deleted? I do have a hard time believing this rhonda person is real and agree with whoever said that if she is she should be seeking professional help not coming on COM. That being said I do think in general the admin does a great job as I have not encountered much if any spam/trolling on this message board.



her account was blocked due to her racial disciination, abuse and bad language continuosly through out her time on this site plus she insulted everybody who had a different opinion to her and got herself as a mod just to block people she didnt like. i also have a hard time believing she is a real at first i thought maybe yes, then i saw a few more posts including the one about how babies are safer in the motehrs arms then in car seats that is when i realise she most definately was someone playing around. unfortunately we do not have proof it is amanda and we cannot use slander and accuse her of this, howevr "rhonda showed up the day after amanda left the site supposedly. amanda already had 2 accounts this will be her third one if it is her. coincidenatlly, rhonda talks about the sames sorts of topics amanda was so touchy on eg, beer in the bottle, FAS staying out late wth the kids etc.  no one will be able to know if it is amanda or someone else playing around however all we are trying to do now is work hard to get her removed. i myself do not have the time to muck around reporting her to admin so i am leaving it up to everyone else, but if i have to in the end i will

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Quoting Krista:

It seems the only "proof" anyone has that Rhonda is a fake is that they find it hard to believe that her situation is plausible...the spelling, her age, the names, the lack of knowledge...but most of you don't seem to have any knowledge of aboriginals in Canada. I live in Alberta, 30 miles from a reserve, and I know how many (not all) aboriginals live. First of all, the names are very common. You don't see "Smith" and "Jones" on a reserve. Second of all, lack of education, alcoholism, and a cycle of poor parenting leads to kids having kids, several fathers, and more poor parenting choices. I have no idea if "Rhonda" is real or just some loser with too much time on her hands...but I have to say that I think her situation is completely plausible and I see it all the time where I live. I know most of you think that giving a child coffee whitener is appauling, but the truly appauling things that happen frequently on a reserve (at least the one I live near) are rape, incest, murder, suicide, overdoses from inhaling hairspray or drinking household cleaners...if you don't know ANYTHING about aboriginals and the struggles they face, you have no right to attack Rhonda or to assume that she is someone else in disguise.





this is true... if it is a joke it is pretty sick and if someone is joking about this they should be very ashamed when there are real people out there going through this stuff... sick joke... if it is





it is true and if there are people out there like rhonda why is it so hard for people to believe that rhonda is one of those people.

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Quoting Krista:

It seems the only "proof" anyone has that Rhonda is a fake is that they find it hard to believe that her situation is plausible...the spelling, her age, the names, the lack of knowledge...but most of you don't seem to have any knowledge of aboriginals in Canada. I live in Alberta, 30 miles from a reserve, and I know how many (not all) aboriginals live. First of all, the names are very common. You don't see "Smith" and "Jones" on a reserve. Second of all, lack of education, alcoholism, and a cycle of poor parenting leads to kids having kids, several fathers, and more poor parenting choices. I have no idea if "Rhonda" is real or just some loser with too much time on her hands...but I have to say that I think her situation is completely plausible and I see it all the time where I live. I know most of you think that giving a child coffee whitener is appauling, but the truly appauling things that happen frequently on a reserve (at least the one I live near) are rape, incest, murder, suicide, overdoses from inhaling hairspray or drinking household cleaners...if you don't know ANYTHING about aboriginals and the struggles they face, you have no right to attack Rhonda or to assume that she is someone else in disguise.


this is true... if it is a joke it is pretty sick and if someone is joking about this they should be very ashamed when there are real people out there going through this stuff... sick joke... if it is

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okay if this is a fake account it is ridiculous... and if it isn't then you need to stop cutting corners and buy some damn formula for the baby... suck it up even if you have to starve feed the baby formula... and please start writing in english... i've read alot of your post and honestly stop having kids if you are this in the dark about taking good care of them and their health...

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Rhonda all I can say to this is that if you are breast feeding that is the cheepest way to feed your child, however if you wish not or can not breast feed truely the best you can do for your child is to buy the formulas off the shelves at the stores. They have the vitamins and minerals your child will need to grow.

If money is an issue check with your childs doctor or a nutisioist. Sometimes they can guide to to a place or someone who can give you what you need for your child, even your local social workers are always willing to help.

I hope I have answered your question, Best Wishes and good luck

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